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		<title>From the Vault: Fast Follow-Up</title>
		<link>http://jeffshore.com/2013/05/from-the-vault-fast-follow-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2013 15:27:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hard at Work I hope you&#8217;ve been enjoying this look back at our &#8220;From the Vault&#8221; series, and I hope you&#8217;ve been able to learn some new lessons from old videos. I&#8217;ve got my head down and my nose to the grindstone working on my latest book, but I promise we&#8217;ll have some fresh new content out for you here very soon. In the meantime, please continue to point out to me all the differences between today and four years ago. A man can get a lot grayer in four years; just ask any president. Whether you sell homes, cars, jewelry, luxury services, or any big ticket item, chances are you are not the only salesperson a customer will run into in their search. You have competition and the customer won&#8217;t give you any more attention than they give anyone &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2013/05/from-the-vault-fast-follow-up/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
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<h6>I hope you&#8217;ve been enjoying this look back at our &#8220;From the Vault&#8221; series, and I hope you&#8217;ve been able to learn some new lessons from old videos.  I&#8217;ve got my head down and my nose to the grindstone working on my latest book, but I promise we&#8217;ll have some fresh new content out for you here very soon.  In the meantime, please continue to point out to me all the differences between today and four years ago.  A man can get a lot grayer in four years; just ask any president.</h6>
<h6>Whether you sell homes, cars, jewelry, luxury services, or any big ticket item, chances are you are not the only salesperson a customer will run into in their search.  You have competition and the customer won&#8217;t give you any more attention than they give anyone else.  That is, not unless you take it.  One of the best way to grab a customer&#8217;s attention is to follow up with them as soon as possible.  Think about it.  If a customer sees ten salespeople in a day, how are you going to be the one who stands out?  You remind them!  And you do it quickly!</h6>
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		<title>From the Vault: Are You Pushy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 May 2013 00:33:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Old Video, Timeless Lesson A lot of you got a kick out of seeing one of my old videos last week. Way back then, I didn&#8217;t know that a black muslin sheet or a high school portrait backdrop didn&#8217;t make for the world&#8217;s most interesting or engaging set pieces. Regardless, I found another old video with a great lesson for this week. I recorded this video way back in June of 2009 for salespeople in the new home industry. But in reality, this messages holds merit for any salesperson who considers themselves a trusted adviser to their customers. Nobody wants to be thought of as a &#8220;pushy&#8221; person. But the truth is, there are appropriate times when a little push is exactly what some customers need.]]></description>
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<h6>A lot of you got a kick out of seeing one of my old videos last week.  Way back then, I didn&#8217;t know that a black muslin sheet or a high school portrait backdrop didn&#8217;t make for the world&#8217;s most interesting or engaging set pieces. Regardless, I found another old video with a great lesson for this week.</h6>
<h6>I recorded this video way back in June of 2009 for salespeople in the new home industry.  But in reality, this messages holds merit for any salesperson who considers themselves a trusted adviser to their customers.  Nobody wants to be thought of as a &#8220;pushy&#8221; person.  But the truth is, there are appropriate times when a little push is exactly what some customers need.</h6>
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		<title>From the Vault: Finish Listening</title>
		<link>http://jeffshore.com/2013/04/from-the-vault-finish-listening/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 01:25:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Who&#8217;s That Guy?! I decided to take a nostalgic trip down memory lane recently, and I found a lot of my old newsletter sales tip videos. Look at the guy in that video! Remember when I had hair?!?! Please enjoy some of these videos from the archive. And definitely enjoy that awesome fake plant in the back ground! In this video from 2010, I shared a best practice for how we handle objections. Remember, when a customer brings up an objections, they&#8217;re not just coming up to you because they want to complain. They are looking for your help. And the only way you can provide the help is if you fully understanding what&#8217;s troubling them. The video may be old, but the lesson is timeless.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Who&#8217;s That Guy?!</h4>
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<h6>I decided to take a nostalgic trip down memory lane recently, and I found a lot of my old newsletter sales tip videos. Look at the guy in that video!  Remember when I had hair?!?!  Please enjoy some of these videos from the archive.  And definitely enjoy that awesome fake plant in the back ground!</h6>
<h6>In this video from 2010, I shared a best practice for how we handle objections.  Remember, when a customer brings up an objections, they&#8217;re not just coming up to you because they want to complain.  They are looking for your help.  And the <em>only</em> way you can provide the help is if you fully understanding what&#8217;s troubling them. The video may be old, but the lesson is timeless.</h6>
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		<title>The Maximum Market Share Mindset: Advancing the Sale</title>
		<link>http://jeffshore.com/2013/04/the-maximum-market-share-mindset-advancing-the-sale/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Apr 2013 00:52:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Never Stop the Sale In our discussion of the Maximum Market Share Mindset, we&#8217;ve been talking about how you can get more than your fair share of sales. You get more by deserving more, by outperforming the competition and by being at the top of your game. Now, that doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;re going to get every sale. Even top performers see prospective customers walk out the door. But the difference is this: Top performers are never at fault when a customer walks away without buying. Top performers take every sale as far as it will possibly go. And if the sale stops, they aren&#8217;t the one who stopped it. Your job is to take the sale as far as it will go. Your perseverance will go a long way towards obtaining more than your fair share. P.S. Click here to &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2013/04/the-maximum-market-share-mindset-advancing-the-sale/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
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<h6>In our discussion of the Maximum Market Share Mindset, we&#8217;ve been talking about how you can get more than your fair share of sales.  You get more by deserving more, by outperforming the competition and by being at the top of your game.</h6>
<h6>Now, that doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;re going to get <em>every</em> sale.  Even top performers see prospective customers walk out the door.  But the difference is this: Top performers are never at fault when a customer walks away without buying.  Top performers take every sale as far as it will possibly go.  And if the sale stops, they aren&#8217;t the one who stopped it.</h6>
<h6>Your job is to take the sale as far as it will go.  Your perseverance will go a long way towards obtaining more than your fair share.</h6>
<p><a href="http://jeffshore.com/blog/"><br />
P.S. Click here to begin The Maximum Market Share Mindset Series from the beginning.</a></h6>
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		<title>The Maximum Market Share Mindset: Energy in the Demonstration</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Apr 2013 23:56:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[High Energy, High Emotion Are you passionate about your product? I hope the answer is &#8220;yes&#8221; because if you aren&#8217;t passionate about what you sell then you&#8217;re going to have a heck of a time trying to get other people to be! People (not just customers) gravitate towards other people who demonstrate high levels of passion and excitement. We are attracted to that dynamic energy in others, we respond to it, and (most importantly) we ADOPT it and reciprocate it! Energy is contagious. So there&#8217;s no reason to sit around waiting for someone to come in who is already excited. YOU BE EXCITED. Your high energy and passion and emotion will carry them through to the sale! Have a great weekend! P.S. Click here to begin The Maximum Market Share Mindset Series from the beginning.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>High Energy, High Emotion</h4>
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<h6>Are you passionate about your product?  I hope the answer is &#8220;yes&#8221; because if you aren&#8217;t passionate about what you sell then you&#8217;re going to have a heck of a time trying to get other people to be!</p>
<p>People (not just customers) gravitate towards other people who demonstrate high levels of passion and excitement.  We are attracted to that dynamic energy in others, we respond to it, and (most importantly) <em>we ADOPT it and reciprocate it!</em></p>
<p>Energy is contagious.  So there&#8217;s no reason to sit around waiting for someone to come in who is already excited.  YOU BE EXCITED.  Your high energy and passion and emotion will carry them through to the sale!</p>
<p>Have a great weekend!  </p>
<p><a href="http://jeffshore.com/blog/"><br />
P.S. Click here to begin The Maximum Market Share Mindset Series from the beginning.</a></h6>
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		<title>The Maximum Market Share Mindset: Understanding the Mission</title>
		<link>http://jeffshore.com/2013/04/the-maximum-market-share-mindset-understanding-the-mission/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Apr 2013 00:50:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Know What You Don&#8217;t Know The sales people who get more than their fair share of sales know something important: They know what they don&#8217;t know. They know that when a customer first walks in the door, that customer comes with a story to tell. And uncovering that story can make all the difference. Every customer is on a mission to improve their lives. There is element in their lives that isn&#8217;t working for them and that&#8217;s why they need your help. Effective sales people understand that if you don&#8217;t know what the element is all you can do is pitch your product, you can&#8217;t truly sell it. Learn to understand your customer&#8217;s mission on a far deeper level than you currently do. It&#8217;s the best way to change their world! P.S. Click here to begin The Maximum Market Share &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2013/04/the-maximum-market-share-mindset-understanding-the-mission/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Know What You Don&#8217;t Know</h4>
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<h6>The sales people who get more than their fair share of sales know something important: <em>They know what they don&#8217;t know</em>.  They know that when a customer first walks in the door, that customer comes with a story to tell.  And uncovering that story can make all the difference.</p>
<p>Every customer is on a mission to improve their lives.  There is element in their lives that isn&#8217;t working for them and that&#8217;s why they need your help.  Effective sales people understand that if you don&#8217;t know what the element is all you can do is pitch your product, you can&#8217;t truly sell it.  </p>
<p>Learn to understand your customer&#8217;s mission on a far deeper level than you currently do.  It&#8217;s the best way to change their world!<br />
<a href="http://jeffshore.com/blog/"><br />
P.S. Click here to begin The Maximum Market Share Mindset Series from the beginning.</a></p>
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		<title>The Maximum Market Share Mindset: Relational Connection</title>
		<link>http://jeffshore.com/2013/03/the-maximum-market-share-mindset-relational-connection/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Mar 2013 07:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Take Off the &#8220;Sales Hat&#8221; As salespeople, what do we think when we see a customer? We think &#8220;Potential buyer.&#8221; What does a customer think when they see us. Well, possibly they think &#8220;Person who will try and take all of my money.&#8221; That&#8217;s a big gap to overcome as a starting point of our interactions with a customer! This is why establishing a Relational Connection with every one we meet (customer or not) is so crucial. Before you can think about selling to someone, you must first gain their respect. Forget the traditional buyer-seller standoff. This is one person talking to another person. It may take practice, but the results are powerful! And click here to catch the beginning of The Maximum Market Share Mindset Series.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Take Off the &#8220;Sales Hat&#8221;</h3>
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<h6>As salespeople, what do we think when we see a customer?  We think &#8220;Potential buyer.&#8221;  What does a customer think when they see us.  Well, possibly they think &#8220;Person who will try and take all of my money.&#8221;  </p>
<p>That&#8217;s a big gap to overcome as a starting point of our interactions with a customer!  This is why establishing a <em>Relational Connection</em> with every one we meet (customer or not) is so crucial.  Before you can think about selling to someone, you must first gain their respect.</h6>
<h6>Forget the traditional buyer-seller standoff.  This is one person talking to another person.  It may take practice, but the results are powerful!</p>
<p><a href="http://jeffshore.com/blog">And click here to catch the beginning of The Maximum Market Share Mindset Series</a>.</h6>
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		<title>The Maximum Market Share Mindset: Full Engagement</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Mar 2013 06:34:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You don&#8217;t have to be the world&#8217;s greatest salesperson to get a sale. Every once in a while, a sale is going to come to you whether you work hard for it or not. But, as I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll agree, to get more than incidental sales, you have to put in the work. For the next few weeks we are going to be talking about the Maximum Market Share Mindset: what top performers do to get more than their fair share of sales. The first attribute of top performers we are taking a look at is full engagement. Top performers never pay partial attention to their customers. They eliminate their mental distractions and concentrate their full focus on their buyer. Check out more in this quick video.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>You don&#8217;t have to be the world&#8217;s greatest salesperson to get a sale.  Every once in a while, a sale is going to come to you whether you work hard for it or not.  But, as I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll agree, to get more than incidental sales, you have to put in the work.  For the next few weeks we are going to be talking about the Maximum Market Share Mindset: what top performers do to get more than their fair share of sales.  </p>
<p>The first attribute of top performers we are taking a look at is <em>full engagement</em>.  Top performers never pay partial attention to their customers.  They eliminate their mental distractions and concentrate their full focus on their buyer.  Check out more in this quick video.</h6>
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		<title>The Obnoxious Ones</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Mar 2013 00:43:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love being the bearer of good news. And I have something should definitely lift your spirits. Remember that tough, lousy, stinking housing market we survived a few years back? Well, not only did you come out the other side of it, but you earned something incredibly valuable: EXTREME BRAGGING RIGHTS! You have the industry sob-story trump card! I shared this phenomenal upside of working through a tough market at last year&#8217;s Sales Leadership Summit. Check it out below and enjoy! Congratulations my fellow obnoxious survivor! Let&#8217;s all be insufferable together! Have a great week!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>I love being the bearer of good news.  And I have something should definitely lift your spirits.  Remember that tough, lousy, stinking housing market we survived a few years back?  Well, not only did you come out the other side of it, but you earned something incredibly valuable: EXTREME BRAGGING RIGHTS!  </p>
<p>You have the industry sob-story trump card!  I shared this phenomenal upside of working through a tough market at last year&#8217;s Sales Leadership Summit.  Check it out below and enjoy!  </h6>
<p><iframe width="640" height="360" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/VRokUtMJdr8?rel=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<h6>Congratulations my fellow obnoxious survivor!  Let&#8217;s all be insufferable together!</p>
<p>Have a great week!</h6>
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		<title>Be Bold #8 &#8211; Bold Little Victories</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Mar 2013 01:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You&#8217;ve worked your boldness muscle. You&#8217;ve come to grips with your discomfort. You&#8217;ve learned to embrace and even enjoy those difficult moments of discomfort. And now we&#8217;re ready for the pay-off! As we wrap up our Be Bold series, I want to recommend that you begin your journey towards greater and greater boldness with small steps. You should look for Bold Little Victories that you can take pride in. More in the video below. And click to view the past lessons in this series.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>You&#8217;ve worked your boldness muscle. You&#8217;ve come to grips with your discomfort.  You&#8217;ve learned to embrace and even enjoy those difficult moments of discomfort.  And now we&#8217;re ready for the pay-off!</p>
<p>As we wrap up our Be Bold series, I want to recommend that you begin your journey towards greater and greater boldness with small steps.  You should look for Bold Little Victories that you can take pride in.  More in the video below.</h6>
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<h6><a href="http://jeffshore.com/blog/">And click to view the past lessons in this series.</a></h6>
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		<title>Be Bold #7 &#8211; Enjoying Discomfort</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Mar 2013 00:33:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve talked about growing the boldness muscle, taking part in humble boldness, and overcoming our discomfort. Last week I suggested that we embrace our discomfort because we know it will lead to opportunities. This week we take the next step forward. It&#8217;s time to learn to ENJOY discomfort! Think about it. If pain equals gain, and we LOVE gain, we need to learn to love pain as well. Watch the quick video below for more. And click to view the past lessons in this series.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>We&#8217;ve talked about growing the boldness muscle, taking part in humble boldness, and overcoming our discomfort.  Last week I suggested that we embrace our discomfort because we know it will lead to opportunities.  This week we take the next step forward.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s time to learn to ENJOY discomfort!  Think about it.  If pain equals gain, and we LOVE gain, we need to learn to love pain as well.  Watch the quick video below for more.</h6>
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		<title>Be Bold #6 &#8211; Embracing Discomfort</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Feb 2013 01:32:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve talked a lot over the last several weeks about what we do in the uneasy moments in the sales process. I&#8217;ve shared with you my thoughts about recognizing and identifying these moments of discomfort, as well as coming to grips with them and tackling them head on! Today we&#8217;ll take it one step further. I want to suggest to you that it&#8217;s not enough to simply confront your discomfort. I want you to EMBRACE it! Because, good news, if you&#8217;ve hit an uncomfortable obstacle that means there&#8217;s a wonderful opportunity on the other side! Watch the quick video below for more! And check out the rest of this series here!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>We&#8217;ve talked a lot over the last several weeks about what we do in the uneasy moments in the sales process.  I&#8217;ve shared with you my thoughts about recognizing and identifying these moments of discomfort, as well as coming to grips with them and tackling them head on!</p>
<p>Today we&#8217;ll take it one step further.  I want to suggest to you that it&#8217;s not enough to simply confront your discomfort.  I want you to EMBRACE it!  Because, good news, if you&#8217;ve hit an uncomfortable obstacle that means there&#8217;s a wonderful opportunity on the other side!  Watch the quick video below for more!</h6>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Feb 2013 01:43:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we face discomfort, when we hit the point of the sale that makes us nervous or uneasy, we have to find a way to face that discomfort down. We have to come to grips with it and remember that as uncomfortable as we feel, it&#8217;s not going to kill us. We have to. Because the alternative is rationalization. Whenever we have a moment of discomfort, we also have a moment of decision. We either overcome the discomfort, or we rationalize why we can&#8217;t. Check out this week&#8217;s video for more on making the BOLD decision. And click here to see the other videos in this series.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>When we face discomfort, when we hit the point of the sale that makes us nervous or uneasy, we have to find a way to face that discomfort down.  We have to come to grips with it and remember that as uncomfortable as we feel, it&#8217;s not going to kill us.</p>
<p>We have to.  Because the alternative is rationalization.  Whenever we have a moment of discomfort, we also have a moment of decision.  We either overcome the discomfort, or we rationalize why we can&#8217;t.  Check out this week&#8217;s video for more on making the BOLD decision.</h6>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Feb 2013 04:57:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyone has some element of their job that they don&#8217;t like. There&#8217;s some task, or responsibility, or routine that makes them uncomfortable. Ask yourself, honestly, what is yours? What is something about your job that, if it were up to you, you&#8217;d skip. Let me suggest that it&#8217;s better to come to grips with your discomfort than to sweep it under the rug. If you acknowledge your discomfort, you will quickly realize that its power is limited. Check out the quick video below for more. And don&#8217;t forget to check out the past newsletters see the rest of this series!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Everyone has some element of their job that they don&#8217;t like. There&#8217;s some task, or responsibility, or routine that makes them uncomfortable. Ask yourself, honestly, what is yours? What is something about your job that, if it were up to you, you&#8217;d skip. Let me suggest that it&#8217;s better to come to grips with your discomfort than to sweep it under the rug. </p>
<p>If you acknowledge your discomfort, you will quickly realize that its power is limited. Check out the quick video below for more.</h6>
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		<title>Be Bold #3 &#8211; The Natural Discomfort of Sales</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2013 03:33:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let me ask you: Does sales ever make you uncomfortable? I don&#8217;t mean in a moral way&#8211;I believe whole-heartedly that sales is a noble profession and the old-school &#8220;sales tricks&#8221; are both beneath us and over with.  No, I mean do you ever just feel&#8230; awkward about some aspect of the job.  Maybe you, like me, have  telephobia, or you don&#8217;t like handing someone a reg card.  Maybe you&#8217;re uncomfortable doing site tours or asking the final closing question. I&#8217;m here to tell you that you aren&#8217;t alone.  EVERYONE has some natural discomfort with some part of their job.  That&#8217;s not going away.  They key is to find the way to work through it.  Watch the quick video below for more from our Boldness series. Check out the whole Be Bold series on the blog!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Let me ask you: Does sales ever make you uncomfortable?</h6>
<h6>I don&#8217;t mean in a moral way&#8211;I believe whole-heartedly that sales is a noble profession and the old-school &#8220;sales tricks&#8221; are both beneath us and over with.  No, I mean do you ever just feel&#8230; awkward about some aspect of the job.  Maybe you, like me, have  telephobia, or you don&#8217;t like handing someone a reg card.  Maybe you&#8217;re uncomfortable doing site tours or asking the final closing question.</h6>
<h6>I&#8217;m here to tell you that you aren&#8217;t alone.  EVERYONE has some natural discomfort with some part of their job.  That&#8217;s not going away.  They key is to find the way to work through it.  Watch the quick video below for more from our Boldness series.</h6>
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		<title>Sales: A People Business</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 22:50:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As an expert in the area of sales and sales management, I admit that I see the world through a sales lens (forgive me – occupational hazard). But so much of what makes for an excellent sales process also makes for great interpersonal relationships. After all, effective selling depends upon strong connection skills. That being the case, the one piece of advice I have offered to salespeople more than anything else over the years has its origin not in sales but in the study of interpersonal communication. The advice is given by the late Stephen Covey in his classic book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. Covey suggests: “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” This principle is at the core of effective sales, and it is paramount to healthy relationships. Covey points out that, “most people don’t &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2013/01/sales-a-people-business/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/sales-person.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-9880" title="sales-person" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/money-hungry.jpg" alt="" width="330" height="211" /></a>As an expert in the area of sales and sales management, I admit that I see the world through a sales lens (forgive me – occupational hazard). But so much of what makes for an excellent sales process also makes for great interpersonal relationships. After all, effective selling depends upon strong connection skills.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">That being the case, the one piece of advice I have offered to salespeople more than anything else over the years has its origin not in sales but in the study of interpersonal communication. The advice is given by the late Stephen Covey in his classic book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. Covey suggests: “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.”<span id="more-9876"></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This principle is at the core of effective sales, and it is paramount to healthy relationships. Covey points out that, “most people don’t listen with the intent to understand – they listen with the intent to respond.” So true.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The direct application of this concept (both in sales and in life) revolves around a critical life skill: childlike curiosity. Most people are just not curious enough about the lives of those around them. I know I’m guilty. I tend to get self-absorbed with my own problems, concerns, goals and dreams. This precludes me from becoming deeply interested in the person I am talking to. This is a shame, because everyone has a story tell and everyone has something to contribute.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The issue really comes down to one critical skill, both in the sales arena and in our work relationships: the ability to ask good questions. Curiosity demands questions; just ask any 4-year-old. Curious people are more about being interested in others than about being interested to others.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Let me offer a direct application here. One curiosity question that is most definitely worth developing is the phrase: “Tell me more about that.” This simple request encourages people to go deeper. It gives them permission to open up. And it is the basis of a deeper understanding. “Tell me more about that.” “Can I ask you to go a little deeper there?” “Talk to me. I want to know more.” Find a way to encourage the other person to share on a deeper level.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This communication tactic works because the really important points that lead us to understanding are not typically found at the top level of a conversation. Even though we might ask the direct question, “How are you?” when we see someone, the response is typically shallow, and in many cases inaccurate. The follow-up questions – the “go deeper” questions – challenges the other person to share what’s really going on.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">You can take the two most disparate people on the planet and put them in the same room. As long as one of the two is about understanding more than about being understood, they will find common ground somewhere.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">In your day-to-day relationships, start practicing the principles of understanding and childlike curiosity. Take an interest in other people, and you’ll change their world!</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2013 04:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week we began our new video series on Boldness.  We are examining what it means to overcome our discomforts, and to make the decision to do the brave thing we don&#8217;t want to do. It&#8217;s important to remember that Boldness isn&#8217;t something that you either have or you don&#8217;t.  Boldness can be developed over time.  Take a look at this week&#8217;s video about strengthening your Boldness muscle. See last week&#8217;s video here.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Last week we began our new video series on Boldness.  We are examining what it means to overcome our discomforts, and to make the decision to do the brave thing we don&#8217;t want to do.</h6>
<h6>It&#8217;s important to remember that Boldness isn&#8217;t something that you either have or you don&#8217;t.  Boldness can be developed over time.  Take a look at this week&#8217;s video about strengthening your Boldness muscle.</h6>
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		<title>Be Bold #1 &#8211; Boldness Defined</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jan 2013 01:52:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How many times a day do we come to a task we know we have to do, but really don&#8217;t want to do, because to do it would be uncomfortable? If you&#8217;re in sales, I&#8217;m guessing you run into these situations many times a day. It may cause you discomfort to have to ask for a registration card, or make a follow-up call, or ask a closing question. But hey, if you want to put food on the table, then you do it, right? This week we&#8217;re kicking off a new video series on one of my favorite topics: Boldness. Boldness is the key to overcoming our discomfort. And here&#8217;s the key. It&#8217;s not simply a quality that some people have and some don&#8217;t. Boldness can be nurtured and strengthened over time. Let&#8217;s start by taking a look at how &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2013/01/be-bold-1-boldness-defined/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>How many times a day do we come to a task we know we <em>have</em> to do, but really don&#8217;t <em>want</em> to do, because to do it would be <em>uncomfortable</em>? If you&#8217;re in sales, I&#8217;m guessing you run into these situations many times a day. It may cause you discomfort to have to ask for a registration card, or make a follow-up call, or ask a closing question. But hey, if you want to put food on the table, then you do it, right?</h6>
<h6>This week we&#8217;re kicking off a new video series on one of my favorite topics: <strong>Boldness</strong>. Boldness is the key to overcoming our discomfort. And here&#8217;s the key. It&#8217;s not simply a quality that some people have and some don&#8217;t. Boldness can be nurtured and strengthened over time.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s start by taking a look at how we define boldness.</h6>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Dec 2012 04:09:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was hired as a new home sales representative in February of 1987 in the Bay Area of Northern California. The market was strong in the mid-1980’s and it would only get stronger for the remainder of the decade. I never lacked for sales in those early years. In fact, a good part of my job was handling campouts and managing long waiting lists. I would have told you at the time that I was a great salesperson – and I would have meant it. I was driving a brand new BMW. I bought a new home. There was food on the table and a decent pair of shoes on my feet. By 1989 I was making more than my parents had ever made in one year – combined. Oh sure, I was highly leveraged and in debt, but with &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/12/lessons-in-adversity/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/adversity3.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-9737" title="adversity3" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/adversity3.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="142" /></a>I was hired as a new home sales representative in February of 1987 in the Bay Area of Northern California. The market was strong in the mid-1980’s and it would only get stronger for the remainder of the decade. I never lacked for sales in those early years. In fact, a good part of my job was handling campouts and managing long waiting lists.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I would have told you at the time that I was a great salesperson – and I would have meant it. I was driving a brand new BMW. I bought a new home. There was food on the table and a decent pair of shoes on my feet. By 1989 I was making more than my parents had ever made in one year – <em>combined. </em>Oh sure, I was highly leveraged and in debt, but with my income there was certainly no need to worry, right?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">For those of you who are familiar with California economic history you know where this story is headed. In early 1990 the real estate market began its rapid decline into a deep slump. The downturn was sudden and unexpected. The decline was head-spinning.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">At first there was denial. “This is a temporary thing. The market is bound to correct itself at some point.”  After that came excuses. “The problem is we just aren’t getting good quality traffic. We need better ads.”  After a short while the confidence began to erode. And then the desperation began to set in. I had to face the reality that I was not prepared for a market downturn. I did not have the skills and I certainly did not have the mental toughness.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">And that is when I first learned to sell. I recognized that in a strong market I could blow off the customers with the tough situations. After all, there were always more (and easier) prospects just outside the door. But in a tough market I needed to embrace the difficult challenges that my customers raised.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">One of my early mentors in sales was a gentleman (and I use that term with all its best meaning) named Bill Kinnaird. He was a veteran who had already seen tough markets and had lived to tell about them. Bill had a way of counseling his customers through their concerns with grace and ease. He was self-confident without being the least bit arrogant. The most important thing I learned from Bill was that it shouldn’t matter what is happening in the market – a sales counselor should always be prepared to handle the challenges of any customer in any market condition. Bill taught me that handling tough situations in a strong market means you will maximize the opportunities that come your way, and that handling the tough situations in a weak market means you will get the sales that others will not.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I was a successful salesperson right out of the gate. But I was only an <em>effective</em> salesperson when I learned how to handle some of the more tricky aspects of sales in challenging conditions.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Dec 2012 03:51:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve seen a lot of great decorations this year, but for every great example of holiday excellence, there&#8217;s the inevitable other end of the spectrum.  So let&#8217;s hear it for for those who make remarkable efforts to be unremarkable.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>We&#8217;ve seen a lot of great decorations this year, but for every great example of holiday excellence, there&#8217;s the inevitable other end of the spectrum.  So let&#8217;s hear it for for those who make remarkable efforts to be unremarkable.</h6>
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		<title>Locational Urgency</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Dec 2012 03:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[December is a month that usually sees a dip in the number of new customers that walk through the door. How do you create urgency during a slow period? Well, a great way to do it is to sell locational urgency.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>December is a month that usually sees a dip in the number of new customers that walk through the door.  How do you create urgency during a slow period?  Well, a great way to do it is to sell locational urgency.</h6>
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		<title>The Season&#8217;s Greatest Christmas Trees</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Dec 2012 21:01:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week we looked at some of the best external house decorations for the Christmas Season.  This week, we look inside at some very clever Christmas trees.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h5>Last week we looked at some of the best external house decorations for the Christmas Season.  This week, we look inside at some very clever Christmas trees.</h5>
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		<title>Ask Jeff: The Final Decision</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Dec 2012 20:45:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a great question from Facebook recently. A salesperson who had made a lot of progress with his buyers was having trouble getting the final purchase decision made. I wanted to share our exchange because I was really impressed the salesperson&#8217;s commitment to maximize his effectiveness. A couple came in on Saturday and right away I could tell the wife was going to be the one I needed to get over the fence. They both agreed we found the perfect house, the perfect lot, very limited availability, and their financing seemed doable. Perfect fit right? Well when I tried to close them at the end the wife had some deep seeded preconceived thoughts about having to have $20000 to put down on a house. She seemed to think the 0 down VA loan that her husband qualifies for was &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/12/ask-jeff-the-final-decision/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h5><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/buy-a-house-with-help-from-parents.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9702" title="buy-a-house-with-help-from-parents" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/buy-a-house-with-help-from-parents-350x217.jpg" alt="" width="245" height="152" /></a>I got a great question from Facebook recently.  A salesperson who had made a lot of progress with his buyers was having trouble getting the final purchase decision made.  I wanted to share our exchange because I was really impressed the salesperson&#8217;s commitment to maximize his effectiveness.</h5>
<p><em>A couple came in on Saturday and right away I could tell the wife was going to be the one I needed to get over the fence. They both agreed we found the perfect house, the perfect lot, very limited availability, and their financing seemed doable. Perfect fit right? Well when I tried to close them at the end the wife had some deep seeded preconceived thoughts about having to have $20000 to put down on a house. She seemed to think the 0 down VA loan that her husband qualifies for was too good to be true. I gave her all of the contact information of our preferred lender and encouraged her to ask questions. She agreed to me calling her during the week to follow up. I couldn&#8217;t help but to think I could have done more to have finally ended this couples two year new home search based on a false preconceived notion of a giant down payment needed. What is the void in my actions?</em></p>
<h6>I love the way you&#8217;re thinking this through. We should all be theorists about how to maximize our performance. There is one thing I&#8217;m missing in this scenario that makes it difficult to render an opinion: Why are they moving in the first place? I say this because the single greatest factor in influencing a move is not interest rates or low down payment&#8230;or even finding the perfect home. The greatest motivating force to make a move is DISSATISFACTION. That is, the greater the dissatisfaction in their current situation the more they HAVE to move. I&#8217;m wondering if she isn&#8217;t feel some pull of comfort in her current surroundings??? Tell me more about why they are moving in the first place.</h6>
<p><em>They are currently renting and have been for years. They are dissatisfied with throwing away the rent money each month. Also they have 4 children and not enough bedrooms for everyone or storage space. They really seem genuine when they tell me that they are ready to be homeowners, I just couldn&#8217;t comfort them enough to make the decision today.</em></p>
<h6>And sometimes that will happen &#8211; it&#8217;s a scary moment, so dont beat yourself up. I would suggest that you offer a timeline of when they should make a decision. &#8220;I know this is a lot to digest. Tell you what &#8211; I&#8217;ll give you tonight to sleep on it and I&#8217;ll call you first thing tomorrow to see what you decided.&#8221; It&#8217;s actually a favor to a customer to give them a time frame &#8211; it allows for more constructive conversations. You&#8217;re close &#8211; hang in there!!!!</h6>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Dec 2012 17:31:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Dec 2012 17:28:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As we wrap up our series about why we do what we do, I wanted to conclude by talking about the contribution that we make, not only to our customers, our company, and our co-workers, but to society at large. We are blessed in our ability to bless others.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>As we wrap up our series about why we do what we do, I wanted to conclude by talking about the contribution that we make, not only to our customers, our company, and our co-workers, but to society at large.  We are blessed in our ability to bless others.</h6>
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		<title>The High Road</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 01:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Paul Desmet is a long-time friend of mine and former sales competitor from way back. He sold in a new home community several blocks from my own. We were targeting the same buyer base in the same price range. Hats off to Paul, one of the classier people I know. Paul never degraded my community, my company or me in his sales presentation. The competition for sales was fierce, but it was never ugly. A different salesperson who shall remain nameless was a competitor in my very next sales community, but his tactics were far less admirable. He slammed my community, my builder, the quality of my homes, and even me personally. He was ruthless and unashamed. In the long run, Paul was not only more ethical but also far more successful. Prospects were turned off by the second salesman, &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/12/the-high-road/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/High-Road.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9683" title="High-Road" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/High-Road-252x300.jpg" alt="" width="252" height="300" /></a>Paul Desmet is a long-time friend of mine and former sales competitor from way back. He sold in a new home community several blocks from my own. We were targeting the same buyer base in the same price range. Hats off to Paul, one of the classier people I know. Paul never degraded my community, my company or me in his sales presentation. The competition for sales was fierce, but it was never ugly.</p>
<p>A different salesperson who shall remain nameless was a competitor in my very next sales community, but his tactics were far less admirable. He slammed my community, my builder, the quality of my homes, and even me personally. He was ruthless and unashamed.</p>
<p>In the long run, Paul was not only more ethical but also far more successful. Prospects were turned off by the second salesman, so much so that his sales pace was consistently lagging. He is out of the business now (and perhaps in jail somewhere!), while Paul is a very successful executive.</p>
<p>No matter the sales situation you must always take the moral high road, not because you’ll get more sales (although it is likely you will) but because it’s the right thing to do. You still have to live with yourself. You still have to sleep at night. You still need to be proud of the work you do.</p>
<p>I don’t care what that other salesperson at that other builder is saying or doing – stay above the muck. Two sayings come to mind on this topic:</p>
<p>* “When you throw dirt you lose ground.”</p>
<p>* “Never wrestle with a pig. You’ll just end up dirty…and the pig will like it.”</p>
<p>Stay morally strong, my friends. It is always the best way to live. Now go change someone’s world…in a very positive way!</p>
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		<title>Deck the Halls, and Lawns, and Roofs, and Cars</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 00:59:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Christmas Season is upon us.  And although we have a history of posting goofy things  at The Shore Thing, we promise not to subject you all to the video of the house that&#8217;s decorated and choreographed to sing Gangdam Style (but if that&#8217;s your thing, you can find it here). Instead, this month we will dedicate the Funnies section to the most humorous decorations of the season.  There doesn&#8217;t appear to be a shortage of creative things homeowners can do with their abodes this time of year.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Christmas Season is upon us.  And although we have a history of posting goofy things  at The Shore Thing, we promise not to subject you all to the video of the house that&#8217;s decorated and choreographed to sing Gangdam Style (but if that&#8217;s your thing, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vX13aBKV368">you can find it here</a>).</p>
<p>Instead, this month we will dedicate the Funnies section to the most humorous decorations of the season.  There doesn&#8217;t appear to be a shortage of creative things homeowners can do with their abodes this time of year.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 00:28:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why do you do what you do? We&#8217;ve talked about many of the compelling reasons that sales people have to get out of bed and go to work in our noble profession. This week, we&#8217;ll delve into one of the most tantalizing reasons we do what we do: the rewards!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Why do you do what you do?  We&#8217;ve talked about many of the compelling reasons that sales people have to get out of bed and go to work in our noble profession.  This week, we&#8217;ll delve into one of the most tantalizing reasons we do what we do: the rewards!</h6>
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		<title>Reality in Realty</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 04:54:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I received this e-mail from a sales professional in Utah, who asks a very good question: I’m finding that there is a disconnect between what the Buyer wants – what solves their dissatisfaction – and what they can afford.  Some customers think the bad economy will give them a $600K house for $375K.  It means I have to solve their dissatisfaction in two ways: by what they want AND by the price they can actually afford and then try to bring those two aspects together.  The problem I’m encountering is that I can do all kinds of educating but it still ends up being a disappointment – and some actual disbelief.  They end up refusing to make a decision because they’re certain that what they want for what they can afford will be out there if they just look long &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/11/reality-in-realty/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I received this e-mail from a sales professional in Utah, who asks a very good question:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>I’m finding that there is a  disconnect between what the Buyer wants – what solves their  dissatisfaction – and what they can afford.  Some customers think the  bad economy will give them a $600K house for $375K.  It means I have to  solve their dissatisfaction in two ways: by what they want AND by the  price they can actually afford and then try to bring those two aspects  together.  The problem I’m encountering is that I can do all kinds of  educating but it still ends up being a disappointment – and some actual  disbelief.  They end up refusing to make a decision because they’re  certain that what they want for what they can afford will be out there  if they just look long enough.  Any suggestions?</em></p>
<p>Getting in touch with this concept we  call “reality” is a normal part of the homebuying process.  The only  difference between the prospects is the length in that journey towards  acceptance of the facts.  The good news is that all builders are playing  from a level playing field; the homes are priced on the same platform  so you’re not going to lose a buyer to another builder (or even to the  resale market) in the scenario you described.</p>
<p>The biggest issue however is whether the  buyer wishes to move at all.  I can fight the battle over timing, and  I’ll take my chances in persuading that I have the best home for that  prospect.  But if the prospect is considering staying put the battle  becomes much more difficult.</p>
<p>Your first order of business is to  identify both the motivation for moving and also the urgency to make a  move.  If they simply cannot stay where they are at based on their  current situation, you know they’ll quickly come to grips with the  realities of pricing and terms.</p>
<p>If they are stuck on the perception of a  $200,000 discount from your at-market pricing, we have a name for that  person: Non-Buyer!</p>
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		<title>More Construction Woes</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 03:58:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok, here are some more bad construction jobs. But I warn you not to throw stones unless you&#8217;re absolutely certain that you could do any better.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Ok, here are some more bad construction jobs.  But I warn you not to throw stones unless you&#8217;re absolutely certain that you could do any better.</h6>
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		<title>Why Do You Do What You Do? Part 3</title>
		<link>http://jeffshore.com/2012/11/why-do-you-do-what-you-do-part-3/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 03:26:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We first answered the question, Why Do You Do What You Do? with the reminder that what we do changes people&#8217;s worlds. We then took a look at the impact we have on society as a whole. This week, we look to how what we do is fulfilling unto ourselves with a discuss of our Achievement Drive]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>We first answered the question, Why Do You Do What You Do? with the reminder that what we do <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/11/why-do-you-do-what-you-do-part-1/">changes people&#8217;s worlds</a>.  We then took a look at the <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/11/why-do-you-do-what-you-do-part-2/">impact we have on society as a whole</a>.  This week, we look to how what we do is fulfilling unto ourselves with a discuss of our Achievement Drive</h6>
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		<title>Who Approved These Construction Plans?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2012 02:56:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Honestly, have you thanked your construction team lately? It&#8217;s clearly not the easiest job in the world.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Honestly, have you thanked your construction team lately?  It&#8217;s clearly not the easiest job in the world.</h6>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2012 01:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Which Visit?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2012 01:41:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We got a great response to our last poll. You can review the results here. We have a new poll this week. How fast do you turn those sales around? Think about the very last sale you made. Now think of when they first physically visited your community. Did those people commit to a purchase on:]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>We got a great response to our last poll.  You can review the <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/11/in-all-honesty/" target="_blank">results here.</a></p>
<p>We have a new poll this week.  How fast do you turn those sales around?</h6>
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		<title>They Say You Can&#8217;t Take It With You But&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://jeffshore.com/2012/11/they-say-you-cant-take-it-with-you-but/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2012 01:04:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Uh oh, It looks like the relocation buyer now has options. Although, I&#8217;ll bet failsafehouselifting.com charges a ton on shipping.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Uh oh, It looks like the relocation buyer now has options.  Although, I&#8217;ll bet  failsafehouselifting.com charges a ton on shipping.</h6>
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		<title>Why Do You Do What You Do?  Part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2012 00:47:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week, we looked into how our jobs as home sales professionals impacted our individual customers. This week, we take a look at how we impact society as a whole.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Last week, we looked into how our jobs as home sales professionals impacted our individual customers.  This week, we take a look at how we impact society as a whole.</h6>
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		<title>In All Honesty&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2012 00:43:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We always get great feedback whenever we ask a poll question, lets see what happens when we ask a tough one! I need complete honesty on this question. Please don&#8217;t answer unless you are willing to be totally honest. And remember, this is 100% anonymous. No one will know how you answered. Here you go… Have you ever intentionally under-reported your actual traffic numbers so that your overall conversion rate would look better?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>We always get great feedback whenever we ask a poll question, lets see what happens when we ask a tough one!</p>
<p>I need complete honesty on this question. Please don&#8217;t answer unless you are willing to be totally honest. And remember, this is 100% anonymous. No one will know how you answered. Here you go…</h6>
<p><script type="text/javascript" charset="utf-8" src="http://static.polldaddy.com/p/6679189.js"></script><br />
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2012 00:29:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Nov 2012 06:01:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The sales process is best thought of as a partnership with your customer. That means a constant involvement of the prospect in the demonstration process. One mistake often made by salespeople is the failure to constantly involve the customer in the sales conversion through active commitments. Too many salespeople go through the process assuming there is an acceptance on the part of the customer without actually asking for that commitment. The rationale in not asking these commitment questions sounds like this: “I already know they love this kitchen – why would I need to ask that?” Actually, there is a very sound reason for asking for a commitment in this instance. You see, we don’t ask closing questions for our own benefit; we ask closing questions for our customer’s benefit. Their active acceptance cements their commitment. I read of this &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/11/active-commitments-2/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1489" title="jl-kitchen-tour" src="http://www.jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/jl-kitchen-tour-300x206.jpg" alt="" />The sales process is best thought of as a partnership with your customer.  That means a constant involvement of the prospect in the demonstration process.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">One mistake often made by salespeople is the failure to constantly involve the customer in the sales conversion through active commitments.  Too many salespeople go through the process assuming there is an acceptance on the part of the customer without actually asking for that commitment.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The rationale in not asking these commitment questions sounds like this: “I already know they love this kitchen – why would I need to ask that?”  Actually, there is a very sound reason for asking for a commitment in this instance.  You see, we don’t ask closing questions for our own benefit; we ask closing questions for our customer’s benefit.  Their active acceptance cements their commitment.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I read of this example this week from a restaurant that was seeking to increase customer commitments to keeping the reservations they made.  The restaurant dropped their no-show rate from 30% to 10% on phone reservations.  How?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Instead of saying, “Please call if you have to cancel”, they changed the line to, “Will you please call if you have to cancel?”, <em>then they waited for the response</em>.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Where could you get more active commitments from your customer? Take advantage of that opportunity and you’ll shorten the buying process.</p>
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		<title>Why Do You Do What You Do? Part One</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Nov 2012 06:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This will be the first in a series of videos about why we do what we do as home sales professionals. I&#8217;ve got to start with my favorite: what we do changes people&#8217;s worlds!]]></description>
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		<title>And Then This Happens&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Nov 2012 06:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week we celebrated the tradition of decorating your house for Halloween.  Of course, we would be remiss to neglect the other common decorations that follow.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Last week we celebrated the tradition of decorating your house for Halloween.  Of course, we would be remiss to neglect the other common decorations that follow.</h6>
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		<title>The 4:2 Formula Audiobook is Ready!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Oct 2012 01:48:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Objections as Buying Signals</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2012 04:39:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Consider the two following scenarios: Scenario 1) A customer comes into your office, but you’re busy with another buyer, so she goes to the model by herself. While she’s there, she finds something that is a deal-killer for her. She comes back through the sales office and can’t wait to get out. There’s nothing that you can do to convince her to stay. Scenario 2) A customer comes into your office, but you’re busy with another buyer, so he goes to the model by himself. While he’s there, he finds something that he perceives to be a problem – let’s say railroad tracks. He comes back into your office with an anguished look on his face. He says, “Oh man, those railroad tracks are so close by. That’s a problem.” In the first scenario, the problem that that the woman &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/10/objections-as-buying-signals/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Consider the two following scenarios:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/Obstacle_Objections_Overcoming_crop380w.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9523" title="Obstacle_Objections_Overcoming_crop380w" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/Obstacle_Objections_Overcoming_crop380w-350x230.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="230" /></a>Scenario 1)</strong> A customer comes into your office, but you’re busy with another buyer, so she goes to the model by herself. While she’s there, she finds something that is a deal-killer for her. She comes back through the sales office and can’t wait to get out. There’s nothing that you can do to convince her to stay.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Scenario 2)</strong> A customer comes into your office, but you’re busy with another buyer, so he goes to the model by himself. While he’s there, he finds something that he perceives to be a problem – let’s say railroad tracks. He comes back into your office with an anguished look on his face. He says, “Oh man, those railroad tracks are so close by. That’s a problem.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">In the first scenario, the problem that that the woman finds is a truly a deal-killer. Customers with deal-killers don’t stand around and describe them to you. They just leave.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">In the second scenario, the problem that the man finds might just fall under his level of acceptable dissatisfaction. This is obvious for one reason: <em>because he hasn’t left</em>. If the railroad tracks were a deal-killer, he would have been gone just like the woman in the first scenario. If he doesn’t leave, you can assume that the railroad tracks are a problem, but not a deal-killer. The customer is giving you a chance, and what he really is saying is, “I don’t like the railroad tracks at all, but I like everything else, and I might need to accept the railroad tracks. This is something that I might consider in my acceptable level of dissatisfaction, but I need your help. Give me some assurance that this is a good thing to do.” The message this customer is sending you is “help me!” He wants to consider moving to the next step, but he needs your help to get there. The next move is yours.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">When customers raise objections, they are telling the salesperson two things. First, they are saying, “I’m not comfortable with this compromise, and I need to talk through it with someone.” And, secondly, they are saying, “I trust you to help me.” In other words, the raising of objections by a customer is a powerful buying sign. The salesperson shouldn’t panic; he should be excited. He has three powerful phrases at his disposal: “Talk to me,” “Tell me what concerns you,” and “I understand – let’s talk about it.”</p>
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		<title>Would Your Customers Applaud Your Success?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2012 04:24:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I had a unique experience on a Southwest flight. It got me thinking about the impact we can have on our customers. If we&#8217;re doing our job right, their successes are ours, and ours are theirs!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a unique experience on a Southwest flight.  It got me thinking about the impact we can have on our customers.  If we&#8217;re doing our job right, their successes are ours, and <em>ours are theirs!</em></p>
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		<title>&#8216;Tis the (other) Season</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2012 03:19:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Once a year we arrive at that magical time where are homes become more than just our simple abodes. We spruce them up, we decorate and adorn them with awe-inspiring spectacle and frivolous amusements. And two months before that, there are Halloween decorations. Ok, to be honest, if this was the toilet in the bathroom of a friend of mine&#8230; I&#8217;d hold it. _ Get it, &#8220;Grounded!&#8221; Ba-Dum-Ching! _ This isn&#8217;t actually a decoration.  RIP last 3 exterminators. _ Of course we saved the scariest photo for last.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once a year we arrive at that magical time where are homes become more than just our simple abodes.  We spruce them up, we decorate and adorn them with awe-inspiring spectacle and frivolous amusements.</p>
<p>And two months before that, there are Halloween decorations.</p>
<p><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/M5NSeY6Fy0SUPUYmsu_Eew21.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9498" title="M5NSeY6Fy0SUPUYmsu_Eew2" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/M5NSeY6Fy0SUPUYmsu_Eew21.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="542" /></a><br />
Ok, to be honest, if this was the toilet in the bathroom of a friend of mine&#8230; I&#8217;d hold it.</p>
<div class="clearme">_</div>
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Get it, &#8220;Grounded!&#8221; <em>Ba-Dum-Ching!</em></p>
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This isn&#8217;t actually a decoration.  RIP last 3 exterminators.</p>
<div class="clearme">_</div>
<p><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/la10285905_1007_marthaskull_xl1.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9504" title="la10285905_1007_marthaskull_xl" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/la10285905_1007_marthaskull_xl1.jpg" alt="" width="360" height="450" /></a><br />
Of course we saved the scariest photo for last.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2012 08:31:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, is this not-so-subtle reminder a message to someone specific?  Or is this an entire neighborhood of bad teeth?  Well, caught my attention either way. What would your garage door message be?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, is this not-so-subtle reminder a message to someone specific?  Or is this an entire neighborhood of bad teeth?  Well, caught my attention either way.</p>
<p>What would your garage door message be?</p>
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		<title>High-Hanging Fruit</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2012 06:24:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You’ve probably heard the term “low-hanging fruit” to describe something that is easy to obtain if you are simply willing to reach out for it.  An example of low-hanging fruit in new home sales could be the culling of leads from your elated buyers.  According to Bob Mirman, CEO of Eliant – the premiere customer satisfaction organization in our industry – most builders fail to reach this easy-to-grab fruit because they do not call their elated homeowners, those who are most likely to refer.  We know this fruit is out there. There is an argument that for many years in many markets the sale itself was low-hanging fruit, with buyers lining up to purchase and waiting lists being the norm.  In that case, the fruit was falling off the tree and into the salesperson’s hands!  Those days, of course, are &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/10/high-hanging-fruit/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/appletree.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9479" title="appletree" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/appletree-224x300.jpg" alt="" width="224" height="300" /></a>You’ve probably heard the term “low-hanging fruit” to describe something that is easy to obtain if you are simply willing to reach out for it.  An example of low-hanging fruit in new home sales could be the culling of leads from your elated buyers.  According to Bob Mirman, CEO of Eliant – the premiere customer satisfaction organization in our industry – most builders fail to reach this easy-to-grab fruit because they do not call their elated homeowners, those who are most likely to refer.  We know this fruit is out there.</p>
<p>There is an argument that for many years in many markets the sale itself was low-hanging fruit, with buyers lining up to purchase and waiting lists being the norm.  In that case, the fruit was falling off the tree and into the salesperson’s hands!  Those days, of course, are gone. Stand at the bottom of the tree and look for the easy pickings and guess what – <strong><em>you’ll starve!</em></strong> It’s a fact: that fruit is higher up the tree.</p>
<p>So how to we get to it? How do we get the sales that are <em>way</em> up the tree?  I think there are four things we need to do to get to that point.</p>
<p><strong>1)</strong> <strong>Learn how to climb</strong>.  You cannot reach the fruit if you don’t know how to get up the tree.  Do you have the knowledge of how to get up there? Here I refer to understanding the sales process well enough to utilize the proper techniques to reach the sales that no one else can get to.  If there ever was a time where it would be in your best interest to know the process as well as you can, it would be today.</p>
<p>Ask yourself, “Have I radically improved my knowledge of ‘tree-climbing’ so that I am prepared to reach sales that others cannot get to?”  There might be an action item for you – beef up your knowledge of how to get sales!</p>
<p><strong>2)</strong> <strong>Get in shape.</strong> There’s a big difference between knowing how to climb and actually being in shape to do so.  You must get beyond just knowing the principles – you must actually prepare yourself to use what you have learned.</p>
<p>Too much sales training is about increasing head knowledge.  But it is the <em>practice</em> of what you have learned that best prepares you for the actual climb.  Don’t kid yourself – you’re not any better when you go to a training class.  You are better only when you practice what you have learned so that when that moment hits (when you need to jump from branch to branch in a hurry) you’re prepared.</p>
<p><strong>3) Be prepared to work hard.</strong> The fact is that high-hanging fruit takes work to get to.  The reason the fruit goes unpicked is because too many salespeople only take what is easy to grasp.  But the harder you work the farther up the tree you go, and the more unpicked fruit you will find.</p>
<p>Can you really say that you are doing all you need to do to reach for the tough sales?  Are you knocking on doors in your community, asking for referrals?  Are you willing to drive to an internet prospect’s home to drop off a brochure in person?  Are you making all the calls you can make?  Are you following up on web leads diligently?  The sales go to the hard workers.</p>
<p><strong>4) You have to reach for it!</strong> When you get within the grasp, you still have to reach.  It does you no good to get to the fruit and then not to pull it down.   This would be a ridiculous thought to a farmer.  You plant, you water, you grow… and then you reap!!!!</p>
<p>Are your closing skills where they need to be?  Are you bold to ask for the sale whenever appropriate?  Or are you unwilling to take a risk and grasp for the hard to reach fruit?</p>
<p>Here’s the good news – the hardest fruit to pick is the sweetest of all!  And while others are starving because they are waiting for the fruit to fall off the tree, the best of the best go out and get it – they reach the high-hanging sales!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2012 05:56:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I shared this message at PCBC last year. I&#8217;d like to share it again as a shout out to anyone who has already experienced some sort of failure this month. And, if you&#8217;re keeping score, that means EVERYBODY! We all have our highs and lows every day! It&#8217;s what we do next that really matters.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I shared this message at PCBC last year.  I&#8217;d like to share it again as a shout out to anyone who has already experienced some sort of failure this month.  And, if you&#8217;re keeping score, that means EVERYBODY!  We all have our highs and lows every day!  It&#8217;s what we do next that really matters.<br />
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2012 03:32:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2012 03:29:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you have one of these kids? Always messing up your vlogs? I&#8217;m a bit curious why she didn&#8217;t choose to reshoot though.]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2012 03:20:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I sat down with Kerry Mulcrone of Kerry &#038; Co and we discussed her philosophy of great sales personnel. Listen to Kerry&#8217;s take on how we could all take a cue from the retail industry.]]></description>
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		<title>Understanding Dissatisfaction</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2012 03:09:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week&#8217;s article is an excerpt from my new book The 4:2 Formula &#8211; Getting Buyers Off the Fence and Into a Home.  You can pre-order the book here. Say you have a big meeting at work and decide to skip lunch one day. You might feel a bit hungry, but it really isn’t a pressing matter and you’re able to hold off until dinner with no sweat. Imagine though, that you have gone 24 hours without food. The urgency to eat becomes stronger and instead of reaching for your usual healthy meal, you pull into a drive-through and get the greasiest burger they sell. Probably not the best option, but hey—you were hungry. Now, imagine yourself out in the wilderness. You haven’t eaten in four days. You’re lightheaded, irritable, sluggish and your stomach feels like it’s eating itself. You &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/10/understanding-dissatisfaction/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6 style="text-align: justify;"><em>This week&#8217;s article is an excerpt from my new book The <a href="http://jeffshore.com/4-2-formula/">4:2 Formula &#8211; Getting Buyers Off the Fence and Into a Home</a>.  You can pre-order the book <a href="http://jeffshore.com/4-2-formula/">here</a>.</em></h6>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/5Guys.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9447" title="5Guys" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/5Guys-350x233.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="233" /></a>Say you have a big meeting at work and decide to skip lunch one day. You might feel a bit hungry, but it really isn’t a pressing matter and you’re able to hold off until dinner with no sweat. Imagine though, that you have gone 24 hours without food. The urgency to eat becomes stronger and instead of reaching for your usual healthy meal, you pull into a drive-through and get the greasiest burger they sell. Probably not the best option, but hey—you were hungry.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Now, imagine yourself out in the wilderness. You haven’t eaten in four days. You’re lightheaded, irritable, sluggish and your stomach feels like it’s eating itself. You see a cicada latched onto a tree, and suddenly something you never thought you would eat looks incredibly scrumptious. You are ravished, so you pick it off and eat it because at this point, you’ll do anything to quell the ache in your empty stomach.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Your own hunger acts as a motivator for change in this situation and you’ll do anything to make that change happen. Even things you may not have considered before.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">That’s dissatisfaction.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I once had a woman walk into the men’s room at the intermission of a concert and say, “Sorry fellas, the line to the women’s room is too long and I just can’t wait.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Again, dissatisfaction.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">In the decision to move there is no more powerful factor than dissatisfaction. But wait—it gets better because not only does dissatisfaction prove to be a powerful motivator, dissatisfaction is also the driving force behind urgency. Just like the urgency experienced by the person who hasn’t eaten in days or the woman who used the men’s room because the line to the ladies room was too long, clients who are dissatisfied with their home have that same emotional thought pattern. They need to move and they needed it to happen yesterday. If you can answer the call of their urgency, you will be their hero.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">In my work with real estate companies around the world I am constantly hit with the same question: “How come we can’t get these buyers off the fence?” That’s a good question, but I have a better one: “What got them on the fence in the first place?” Figure out what got them on the fence and you’ll figure out how to get them off the fence. If you’ve ever wondered what makes customers get off the fence, start with their dissatisfaction.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Oct 2012 04:08:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It was apparently very important that the toilet got into the garage as soon as possible. The walls could wait.]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Oct 2012 03:47:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“I’ve always been an optimist. Frankly, I never saw much use in being anything else.” Winston Churchill Psychologist Martin Sigelman discovered a strong link between optimism and results in a detailed study with sales professionals at Met Life Insurance. The study concluded that those who ranked in the top 10% of the organization when it came to optimism outsold by 88% those in the bottom 10% of the company. That statistic may not surprise you, but think through the underlying aspects of the study. These were salespeople, and they were hired because they were optimistic people in the first place. Those in the bottom 10% still would have considered themselves to be optimists, and compared to a lot of other professions they probably were. What does this mean for the top 10% of the salespeople in the organization? It means &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/10/9411/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><em><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/church.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1114" title="BE002437" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/church-300x202.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="202" /></a>“I’ve always been an optimist. Frankly, I never saw much use in being anything else.” Winston Churchill</em></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Psychologist Martin Sigelman discovered a strong  link between optimism and results in a detailed study with sales  professionals at Met Life Insurance. The study concluded  that those who ranked in the top 10% of the organization when it came to  optimism outsold by 88% those in the bottom 10% of the company.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">That statistic may not surprise you, but think through the underlying aspects of the study. These were salespeople, and they were hired because they were optimistic people in the first place. Those  in the bottom 10% still would have considered themselves to be  optimists, and compared to a lot of other professions they probably  were.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">What does this mean for the <em>top</em> 10% of the salespeople in the organization? It means they were more than optimists – they were <em>super</em>-optimists. These were people who did more than pretend. They were optimists in their core, and they carried that optimistic purpose into every sales encounter.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Are you a “super-optimist” in the sales presentation? Show me, don’t tell me. I’ll see it your approach, in your energy, and in your facial posture. I’ll see it in a clear sense of purpose in your conversation. I’ll see you drive the sales process along, and I’ll see that you do not give in to negative energy.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">How optimistic are you? Optimistic enough to change someone’s world?</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Oct 2012 03:32:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For many buyers, one of the biggest sticking points on making the purchase is the amount of storage space in the home. So what do you do if your home is lacking in that area?]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Sep 2012 03:25:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great real estate professionals have to be knowledgeable about their homes. But more than that, a superstar salesperson delves deep into the community and neighborhood surrounding the home. Many customers won&#8217;t buy your home if they don&#8217;t feel favorable towards the surround area. You need to know your stuff!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Great real estate professionals have to be knowledgeable about their homes.  But more than that, a superstar salesperson delves deep into the community and neighborhood surrounding the home.  Many customers won&#8217;t buy your home if they don&#8217;t feel favorable towards the surround area.  You need to know your stuff!</h6>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Sep 2012 03:24:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This realtor, who specializes in video tours, gives the people what they want! And what the people wanted was a quicker tour. Watch this pro sacrifice his very safety to deliver on his promises (the good part is at 49 seconds).]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>This realtor, who specializes in video tours, gives the people what they want!  And what the people wanted was a quicker tour.  Watch this pro sacrifice his very safety to deliver on his promises (the good part is at 49 seconds).</h6>
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		<title>False Objection Conclusions</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Sep 2012 03:12:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jumping to conclusions is the most serious and most common violation of good selling technique. Salespeople have a natural tendency to internalize their own objections, and then they project these objections onto their customers. The customer is therefore assumed to have the objections that the salesperson has internalized. Of course, this is a mistake; when a salesperson allows his own biases to influence the sales conversation, he ends up increasing buyer anxiety. Consider power lines. Power lines are generally objected to by buyers because of three reasons: aesthetics, health, or resale value. After polling people around the country, I have found that the three objections are evenly spread among home buyers. In other words, about one-third of those polled objected to power lines on the basis of aesthetics, one-third objected on the basis of health, and one-third objected on the &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/09/false-objection-conclusions/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/uav-power-lines.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9393" title="uav-power-lines" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/uav-power-lines-350x245.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="245" /></a>Jumping to conclusions is the most serious and most common violation of good selling technique. Salespeople have a natural tendency to internalize their own objections, and then they project these objections onto their customers. The customer is therefore assumed to have the objections that the salesperson has internalized.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Of course, this is a mistake; when a salesperson allows his own biases to influence the sales conversation, he ends up increasing buyer anxiety. Consider power lines. Power lines are generally objected to by buyers because of three reasons: aesthetics, health, or resale value. After polling people around the country, I have found that the three objections are evenly spread among home buyers. In other words, about one-third of those polled objected to power lines on the basis of aesthetics, one-third objected on the basis of health, and one-third objected on the basis of resale value. If a salesperson projects his own personal basis for the objection onto the buyer, he will be out of sync with the buyer’s concern two-thirds of the time. This will result in the salesperson bringing up an objection that the customer never had considered.</p>
<p>This is how this interaction would look:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em><strong>Customer</strong>: “I’m really concerned about the power lines.”<br />
<strong>Salesperson</strong></em> <em>: “I understand. But we’ve got all kinds of literature from the utility company regarding potential health concerns from EMF’s emitted from the lines. You actually have more health danger from your microwave oven or your hair dryer.”<br />
<strong>Customer</strong></em> <em>: “Did you say health concerns? I just thought that they were ugly.”</em></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This salesperson has given a second concern or anxiety to the buyer without even addressing the principal issue. In a tough market, buyers are looking to eliminate; they are seeking out deal-killers. The last thing a salesperson should do is to add his or her own personal biases to those concerns that the buyer has already adopted.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2012 01:44:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We would never suggest that you be so aggressive with your sales presentation. But hey, the guy gets results!]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2012 01:14:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are taking the time to savor and appreciate your victories? Do it! And you&#8217;ll find you have the energy to earn even more!]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Sep 2012 00:03:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, it&#8217;s got potential&#8230;right? How would you sell this home property?  Write you best suggestion in the comments below.  The best caption will be featured next week.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, it&#8217;s got potential&#8230;right? How would you sell this <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">home</span> property?  Write you best suggestion in the comments below.  The best caption will be featured next week.</p>
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		<title>Ask Jeff: The Customer&#8217;s Current Home</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2012 23:54:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are selling a 28 unit active adult community in Long Island, NY. Currently we are about 80% sold, most of which have been recent full price deals. The problem we are seeing is we have loads of prospects that love the community and the homes that we are offering, are fine with the pricing because they see the current sales, but have a home to sell in order to make it happen. Most of the folks are conservative and aren&#8217;t ready to make a move to a contract despite the above. We even have a program that gives them the time to sell their home. Their response to all of this is &#8220;if I sold my house I would buy here today&#8221;. I believe them because most of the recent sales are from prospects that have recently put their &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/09/ask-jeff-the-customers-current-home/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;"><em><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/active-adult-retirement-communites-photo.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9333" title="Couple Enjoying A Game Of Golf" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/active-adult-retirement-communites-photo-350x232.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="232" /></a>We are selling a 28 unit active adult community in Long Island, NY. Currently we are about 80% sold, most of which have been recent full price deals. The problem we are seeing is we have loads of prospects that love the community and the homes that we are offering, are fine with the pricing because they see the current sales, but have a home to sell in order to make it happen. Most of the folks are conservative and aren&#8217;t ready to make a move to a contract despite the above. We even have a program that gives them the time to sell their home. Their response to all of this is &#8220;if I sold my house I would buy here today&#8221;. I believe them because most of the recent sales are from prospects that have recently put their home into contract and came back to us to move forward and at full asking price. How do you suggest moving this situation along any differently?</em></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Jeff:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This is, of course, a common issue these days and not just for the active adult buyer.  But the deeper concern must me more clearly defined.  Let’s break it down.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The customer has a home to sell and that causes an objection.  But what is the easiest way to sell the home quickly?  Simple.  Do a market survey and then price the home at $100,000 under the comps; it will sell in no time.  Of course that’s not feasible; I’m only trying to make a point.  When a customer says, “I can’t sell my home”, that’s not an accurate statement. Of course he can sell his home; he just doesn’t perceive that he can sell it for enough.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Which leads us to the next questions in this process: how much does he need to sell his home for, and why?  If a prospect states that he needs to sell his home for a certain price in order to qualify for the home he is interested in, that’s one thing.  But often times (and this is particularly true for the active buyer with lots of equity) the prospect is really thinking, “I can’t sell the home for what I think it’s worth.”  In other words, we are not dealing with having to sell the home for a certain price, but rather with a reluctance to sell for less than what he thinks he should get.  After all, he poured that back patio with the sweat of his own brow!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">So the first order of business is to find out whether this is a financial issue or a psychological one.  If it’s just a matter of value perception, then an education on “fair value” is in order.  And if he waits for his home to climb in value, he’ll be waiting for yours to climb as well.  Try this statement: “When it’s such a great buying opportunity, as it is today, rule #1 should be to live in the right home.”</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2012 23:24:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Top performers in any industry are not afraid of what they don&#8217;t know. They are always looking for ways to grow themselves, and so they don&#8217;t shy away from asking thoughtful and important questions.]]></description>
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		<title>On the Other Hand, It&#8217;s a Scary Good Deal</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Sep 2012 02:49:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You don&#8217;t have to be undead to move in here&#8230; but it helps.]]></description>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Fear the Shop Tape!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Sep 2012 02:44:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Does your company regularly hire out “secret shoppers” to evaluate your sales presentation? You know those guys – the ones who look like real prospects but are actually posing as buyers while they videotape your presentation. Got any experience with that? Some salespeople love the shopping experience and some loathe it. But here’s my advice to you: get over your emotion and start looking for the significant learning opportunities. You may have tallied a low score, but that means there is plenty to learn and correct for immediate improvement. You may have registered a high score, but I’ve never seen a shop that didn’t have provide some opportunity to hone the skill. Terri Rouse, VP of Sales at Impact Marketing – a nationwide shopping company – puts it this way. “Our task is to shine the light on the opportunities &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/09/dont-fear-the-shop-tape/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/mystery-shopping.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9290" title="mystery-shopping" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/mystery-shopping-350x233.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="233" /></a>Does your company regularly hire out “secret shoppers” to evaluate your sales presentation? You know those guys – the ones who look like real prospects but are actually posing as buyers while they videotape your presentation.  Got any experience with that?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Some salespeople love the shopping experience and some loathe it.  But here’s my advice to you: get over your emotion and start looking for the significant learning opportunities.  You may have tallied a low score, but that means there is plenty to learn and correct for immediate improvement.  You may have registered a high score, but I’ve never seen a shop that didn’t have provide some opportunity to hone the skill.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Terri Rouse, VP of Sales at Impact Marketing – a nationwide shopping company – puts it this way.  “Our task is to shine the light on the opportunities that salespeople have to improve their performance.  The sales professional needs to this as an opportunity to really improve their skills. Those salespeople who see the shop as a valuable asset in performance improvement get the most out of it.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">My suggestion to you: disregard the score – good or bad – and look for the lessons that will make you better for the next customer to come through the door.  You may love the shops or hate them, but that’s not really the point.  The point is that as a professional you are always looking for the chance to take your game to a new level.  Look at your last shop with fresh eyes and see if you can’t find the low-hanging fruit that will get you more sales!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Sep 2012 02:26:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every salesperson, whether they are new or old for this business, has room to grow. And the best salespeople find ways to grow themselves without any outside influences. In this video, I share one of my favorite methods for growing my effectiveness as a sales leader.]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Sep 2012 00:32:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you heard of subliminal messaging? It&#8217;s pretty cool. And not to brag, but we think we&#8217;ve gotten the hang of it.]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Sep 2012 00:03:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How good do you want to be? If you think you&#8217;re pretty good now, well that&#8217;s fine. But can you be better? Of course you can! But you never will if you decide that you&#8217;re already satisfied being &#8220;pretty good&#8221;. Take a look at this weeks video and motivate yourself to be your future best.]]></description>
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		<title>The Model Employee</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Aug 2012 06:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The organizations of today’s market are looking to be as efficient in their operations as they can.  That sounds like a pleasant way of saying “saving money”, but the reality is that working towards business efficiencies in every aspect of the operation is a necessary leadership step in keeping an organization healthy through the difficult times. Ask the experts and they’ll tell you that the biggest impact in efficiency comes through the productivity of the employees.  The company whose employees perform at the highest level will find the best chances of success.  Employees who perform at the highest level will find the greatest income, the greatest job security, and the greatest chance of advancement within an organization. With many years of experience in managing people, I have found five distinct actions of the model employee.  Note I didn’t say “attitudes”, &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/08/the-model-employee/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/3361453_com_employee.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9241" title="3361453_com_employee" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/3361453_com_employee-294x300.jpg" alt="" width="294" height="300" /></a>The organizations of today’s market are looking to be as efficient in their operations as they can.  That sounds like a pleasant way of saying “saving money”, but the reality is that working towards business efficiencies in every aspect of the operation is a necessary leadership step in keeping an organization healthy through the difficult times.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Ask the experts and they’ll tell you that the biggest impact in efficiency comes through the productivity of the employees.  The company whose employees perform at the highest level will find the best chances of success.  Employees who perform at the highest level will find the greatest income, the greatest job security, and the greatest chance of advancement within an organization.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">With many years of experience in managing people, I have found five distinct actions of the model employee.  Note I didn’t say “attitudes”, “characteristics” or “personality traits”. These are actions – clear and specific steps you can take each and every day.  Follow them carefully and you’ll increase the effectiveness of your organization.  It won’t hurt your career one bit.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;">1)    <strong><em>Exceed Expectations – Every Single Day.</em></strong> Model employees have a specific purpose to outperform, to rise above the minimum expectations of the job.  Mediocre employees ask, “What is the least I can do without getting in trouble?”  Top performs ask, “What specifically can I do today to exceed expectations?”  This mindset, when turned to action, will guide you in doing extraordinary things on a daily basis for your company, for your customers, for your coworkers and for yourself.  But it must be <em>specific.</em> Every day you must start with an action plan of what you will do above and beyond the call of duty.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;">2)    <strong><em>Arrive Early; Stay Late.</em></strong> When you get to work at the exact start time and leave at the exact ending time you send a message to your leadership that you really don’t want to be at work any longer than you have to.  Moreover, you live this part of your life with no margin, cutting the time too close and risking disciplinary action.  It doesn’t have to be a long time before and after the assigned hours, but padding the time just a little bit sends a message that you are fully devoted to getting the job done right.  One more thing on this topic – I’ve been in leadership for a long time, and somehow I always know when someone struggles in this area.  You may think the boss is blind to your arrival and departure times, but the boss somehow always knows.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;">3)    <strong><em>Be a Good Businessperson.</em></strong> You greatly increase your value to the organization when you understand the business of your company.  Read industry articles, search for information on industry websites, and develop an inquisitive mind in queries to your co-workers.  Learn everything you can about your organization and apply what you learn to improve your own performance.  This increases your value on a number of levels.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;">4)    <strong><em>Get Into Self-Training.</em></strong> Too many employees rely on their company to provide any and all training and skill development.  Top performers seek out their own growth opportunities and take ownership of their own development.  In fact, the greatest growth of your career will always be self-directed, if you allow that to be so.  When you set your own developmental agenda you are more likely to utilize what you learn because you have more personal buy-in.  You direct the learning, so you are more likely to also find the application to your work.  Make it a priority to develop a new skill or to learn something that will improve your performance, and do that every single day.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;">5)    <strong><em>Adopt the Boss’ Vision.</em></strong> Finally, find out what is important to the leadership of your company, and order your own activities to compliment that vision.  In the broad sense, your very job is to make your boss look good.  And that is never a bad way to go about your daily tasks.  If you don’t connect with the vision of the company there is little chance that you will ever perform even to the minimum standards.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">So now it’s up to you.  Are you a mediocre employee, or are you an invaluable team member?  The choice is up to you, and you choose with your actions – every single day.</p>
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		<title>The School District Challenge</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Aug 2012 06:02:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I received an email from someone asking about a tricky problem they are having. What do you do if your community is located in a school district that isn&#8217;t well regarded. I have a few ideas that might help you overcome this particular objection.]]></description>
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		<title>Manage Your Sales Factory</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Aug 2012 06:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let’s go for a paradigm shift here. Let’s go with the premise that you do not work for a homebuilding company and you do not sell homes. Instead, you are the production manager at a plant. Your task is to take the raw product, efficiently walk it through the well-defined process, and produce a finished good. What is the raw product? A prospective purchaser. What is the finished good? A homebuyer. And your very job is to manage the well-defined process of converting these leads into buyers. So how would a plant manager see the situation? 1) Don’t waste the raw material. Plant managers are very careful to maximize the raw product so that they have the best chance of success. They know they can’t work with all the raw material that comes through the door, but they maximize all &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/08/manage-your-sales-factory/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/3118711607-1.gif"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9146" title="3118711607-1" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/3118711607-1-350x223.gif" alt="" width="350" height="223" /></a>Let’s go for a paradigm shift here.  Let’s go with the premise that you do not work for a homebuilding company and you do not sell homes.  Instead, you are the production manager at a plant.  Your task is to take the raw product, efficiently walk it through the well-defined process, and produce a finished good.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">What is the raw product?  A prospective purchaser.  What is the finished good?  A homebuyer.  And your very job is to manage the well-defined process of converting these leads into buyers.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">So how would a plant manager see the situation?</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;">1) Don’t waste the raw material.  Plant managers are very careful to maximize the raw product so that they have the best chance of success.  They know they can’t work with all the raw material that comes through the door, but they maximize all they can.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;">2) Define the process.  Plant managers are obsessed with processes, and with flawless execution of those processes.  They will not abide for anyone to make up the process as they go.  There is right way to do this in order to ensure an excellent quality finished product.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;">3) Finish the job.  Plant managers know that a job completed only 90% of the way is a 100% failure.  So they take great pains to ensure that every process comes to a logical and well-executed completion.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">What does your plant look like?  And in which of the three areas do you need to focus?  Change your paradigm, and you change people’s world.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Thank You, I&#8217;ll Be Here All Week&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Aug 2012 06:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Those of you familiar with my training philosophies have heard me talk about my 4:2 Formula.  Those who haven&#8217;t, might be tempted to take a guess at what the heck a 4:2 Formula is. A lot of you may also be familiar with a friend of mine, Jim Suth.  Jim, ever the comedian, decided to take a few wild stabs at what 4:2 could possible mean.  Here are his (completely insane) guesses. Jim: &#8220;If you have at least 4 ounces of brain pan you’d realize how great rates and prices are and you’d buy 2 homes!&#8221; &#8220;Of your friends at least 4 are stupid and only 2 are actually smart. Those 2 are telling you to buy a home!&#8221; &#8220;Even a 4 year old knows it’s the right time to buy. You wouldn’t need to tell him 2 times either! &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/08/thank-you-ill-be-here-all-week/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/Screen-Shot-2012-08-23-at-12.17.44-AM.png"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9152" title="Screen Shot 2012-08-23 at 12.17.44 AM" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/Screen-Shot-2012-08-23-at-12.17.44-AM-350x216.png" alt="" width="350" height="216" /></a>Those of you familiar with my training philosophies have heard me talk about my 4:2 Formula.  Those who haven&#8217;t, might be tempted to take a guess at what the heck a 4:2 Formula is.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">A lot of you may also be familiar with a friend of mine, Jim Suth.  Jim, ever the comedian, decided to take a few wild stabs at what 4:2 could possible mean.  Here are his (completely insane) guesses.</p>
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<p><em>&#8220;Of your friends at least 4 are stupid and only 2 are actually smart. Those 2 are telling you to buy a home!&#8221;</em></p>
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<p><em>&#8220;Even  a 4 year old knows it’s the right time to buy. You wouldn’t need to  tell him 2 times either! Get cracking!”</em></p>
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<p><em>&#8220;Buying right now would be 4:2itous for you and your family.”</em></p>
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<p><em>&#8220;Ok,  you have 4 dollars. The feds take 2. You have no tax benefits. If you  stand still long enough they’ll take the other 2. Quit being a giant  loserpants!&#8221;</em></p>
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<p><em>&#8220;You say you&#8217;re &#8216;on the fence&#8217; about buying a home?  A  fence is a mobster trying to unload stolen goods. If you sit on a fence  he won’t like it at all. He’ll send 4 thugs to split your head in 2.&#8221;</em></p>
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		<title>The 60-Second Break</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Aug 2012 06:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes it pays off to take a strategic and focused break from your day. Unfortunately, our circumstances often prohibit a long, restful respite. No worries. You can get a good and meaningful break in just 60 seconds if you do it strategically and really focus. Step away from your desk and find a quiet place (a bathroom will do). Close your eyes and concentrate as you take long, deep breaths. Make a decision towards positive attitude and energy. You’ll probably find that 60 seconds is actually quite a long time for this exercise. But you’ll feel more energized and more in control when you step back into the job!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/special-needs-mom-break.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9163" title="special-needs-mom-break" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/special-needs-mom-break-298x300.jpg" alt="" width="298" height="300" /></a>Sometimes it pays off to take a strategic and focused break from your day. Unfortunately, our circumstances often prohibit a long, restful respite.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">No worries. You can get a good and meaningful break in just 60 seconds if you do it strategically and really focus. Step away from your desk and find a quiet place (a bathroom will do). Close your eyes and concentrate as you take long, deep breaths. Make a decision towards positive attitude and energy.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">You’ll probably find that 60 seconds is actually quite a long time for this exercise. But you’ll feel more energized and more in control when you step back into the job!</p>
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		<title>Where in the World is Jeff Shore?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Aug 2012 01:50:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I had a very busy week last week.  It was one of those weeks where I saw a lot of airports.  So, can you guess which ones based on the photos?  Take your guesses in the comments below.  Whoever can guess all of the destinations will win my congratulations/sympathies as a fellow road warrior! And finally, happy to be home.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>I had a very busy week last week.  It was one of those weeks where I saw a <em>lot</em> of airports.  So, can you guess which ones based on the photos?  Take your guesses in the comments below.  Whoever can guess all of the destinations will win my congratulations/sympathies as a fellow road warrior!</h6>
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<p><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/483923_408021605927216_2116862493_n.jpg"></a><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/430995_407297835999593_967567768_n.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9121" title="430995_407297835999593_967567768_n" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/430995_407297835999593_967567768_n.jpg" alt="" width="403" height="403" /></a><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9122" title="483923_408021605927216_2116862493_n" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/483923_408021605927216_2116862493_n.jpg" alt="" width="403" height="403" /></p>
<p>And finally, happy to be home.</p>
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		<title>Effective Closing: Avoiding the Offer Game</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Aug 2012 01:17:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week&#8217;s article comes from a post from StrategicSalesandMarketing.com.  It&#8217;s a great indictment on the way we undermine our selling position by hinting at special offers. Moving through the challenging market we&#8217;ve been navigating, direct and effective closing is becoming more important in establishing value for your community. Avoiding the time-consuming process of lengthy negotiations is even more crucial to achieving the sale. These days too many salespeople have been attempting to close via the fall back closing: &#8220;Would you like to make an offer on this home today?&#8221; This close will immediately communicate to the buyer that the salesperson has acknowledged that the terms/price are negotiable. It also assumes the buyer will demand concessions in order to move forward. &#8220;Offer&#8221; says we are selling from a place of weakness and are willing to look at whatever you might bring &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/08/effective-closing-avoiding-the-offer-game/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6 style="text-align: justify;">This week&#8217;s article comes from a post from <a href="https://strategicsalesandmarketing.com">StrategicSalesandMarketing.com</a>.  It&#8217;s a great indictment on the way we undermine our selling position by hinting at special offers.</h6>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/closing-the-sale1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9112" title="closing-the-sale1" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/closing-the-sale1-350x232.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="232" /></a>Moving through the challenging market we&#8217;ve been navigating, direct and effective closing is becoming more important in establishing value for your community. Avoiding the time-consuming process of lengthy negotiations is even more crucial to achieving the sale. These days too many salespeople have been attempting to close via the fall back closing:</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">&#8220;Would you like to make an offer on this home today?&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This close will immediately communicate to the buyer that  the salesperson has acknowledged that the terms/price are negotiable.  It also assumes the buyer will demand concessions in order to move forward. &#8220;Offer&#8221; says we are selling from a place of weakness and are willing to look at whatever you might bring us.  &#8220;Offer&#8221; means we assume the buyer doesn&#8217;t see the value and are anticipating as such. Why would a competent salesperson do this?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">There are some explainable factors &#8211; such as direction from their manager.  However, by simply by removing the word &#8220;offer&#8221; from the sales vocabulary, it shifts the presentation to selling from a position of strength.  It instills belief in the product offering and pricing. If you are still using this type of close, try some of these direct closes instead:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;"><strong>Would you like to own this home today?</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;"><strong>Are you ready to move forward?</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;"><strong>Since Plan X fits all your needs, what is preventing you from moving forward with this purchase today?</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;"><strong>Let&#8217;s get the paperwork started!</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;"><strong>Are you ready to make your dream of owning a home come true?</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">At Strategic Sales &amp; Marketing, we focus on maintaining values at our communities and assume each home is sellable exactly where it&#8217;s listed. Anything else is an uncertainty!</p>
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		<title>The Sale When You&#8217;re Not Around</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Aug 2012 01:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are, sadly, not omnipresent. We can&#8217;t be with every customer all the time. Eventually, customers will leave your office to think about your offering. Because of this, a large portion of the sales process takes place in the absence of the sales person. How can you make sure you&#8217;re not forgotten while you aren&#8217;t standing in front of them? I recorded this video on the subject.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>We are, sadly, not omnipresent.  We can&#8217;t be with every customer all the time.  Eventually, customers will leave your office to think about your offering.  Because of this, a large portion of the sales process takes place in the absence of the sales person.  How can you make sure you&#8217;re not forgotten while you aren&#8217;t standing in front of them?  I recorded this video on the subject.</h6>
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		<title>The Low Inventory Advantage</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Aug 2012 15:11:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Right now, it&#8217;s not the easiest thing for our customers to find their dream home. In many markets, there isn&#8217;t all that much of a selection out there that isn&#8217;t getting snatched up quickly. And that can be good news for you! There&#8217;s a distinct advantage that comes with low inventory, and I share it in this week&#8217;s video.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Right now, it&#8217;s not the easiest thing for our customers to find their dream home.  In many markets, there isn&#8217;t all that much of a selection out there that isn&#8217;t getting snatched up quickly.  And that can be good news for you!  There&#8217;s a distinct advantage that comes with low inventory, and I share it in this week&#8217;s video.</h6>
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		<title>Six Real Estate Photos that Probably Aren&#8217;t Working</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Aug 2012 00:35:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When posting a real estate listing, it&#8217;s very important that your photos grab the viewer&#8217;s attention.  Here are six photos that do just that&#8230; for all of the wrong reasons. Where exactly are you supposed to stand in an earthquake? Recycling is great and all, but&#8230; I sneezed eight times just posting this photo. Oddly, dressing up your toilet only makes it more unsanitary. &#8220;I told you three times to erase that chalkboard before the buyers show!&#8221; &#8220;And, if you buy the house, you get legal guardianship if this family!&#8220;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6 style="text-align: left;">When posting a real estate listing, it&#8217;s very important that your photos grab the viewer&#8217;s attention.  Here are six photos that do just that&#8230; for all of the wrong reasons.</h6>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/beams-and-dolls-house-2-Roma.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9069" title="beams-and-dolls-house-2-Roma" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/beams-and-dolls-house-2-Roma.jpg" alt="" width="512" height="400" /></a></h6>
<h6 style="text-align: center;">Where exactly are you supposed to stand in an earthquake?</h6>
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<h6 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/toilet-seat-on-bathroom-wall-611x407.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9070" title="toilet-seat-on-bathroom-wall-611x407" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/toilet-seat-on-bathroom-wall-611x407.jpg" alt="" width="611" height="407" /></a></h6>
<h6 style="text-align: center;">Recycling is great and all, but&#8230;</h6>
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<h6 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/flower-power-amherst-ny-kitchen-sabrina-611x458.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9071" title="flower-power-amherst-ny-kitchen-sabrina-611x458" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/flower-power-amherst-ny-kitchen-sabrina-611x458.jpg" alt="" width="611" height="458" /></a></h6>
<h6 style="text-align: center;">I sneezed eight times just posting this photo.</h6>
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<h6 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/fancy-toilet-Sherine-611x680.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9072" title="fancy-toilet-Sherine-611x680" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/fancy-toilet-Sherine-611x680.jpg" alt="" width="611" height="680" /></a></h6>
<h6 style="text-align: center;">Oddly, dressing up your toilet only makes it <span style="text-decoration: underline;">more</span> unsanitary.</h6>
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<h6 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/chore-chart-Sherine-611x456.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9073" title="chore-chart-Sherine-611x456" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/chore-chart-Sherine-611x456.jpg" alt="" width="611" height="456" /></a></h6>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><em>&#8220;I told you three times to erase that chalkboard before the buyers show!&#8221;</em></h6>
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<h6 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/family-in-the-bed-Alexandria-VA-Heidi-611x4581.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-9075" title="family-in-the-bed-Alexandria-VA-Heidi-611x458" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/family-in-the-bed-Alexandria-VA-Heidi-611x4581.jpg" alt="" width="611" height="458" /></a></h6>
<h6 style="text-align: center;"><em>&#8220;And, if you buy the house, you get legal guardianship if this family!</em>&#8220;</h6>
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		<title>Satisfaction Isn&#8217;t Good Enough</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Aug 2012 00:14:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[All the talk in the homebuilding industry – and in most every industry for that matter – is about the much sought after “Customer Satisfaction”. It seems that JD Power is everywhere these days and companies around the globe are chasing the elusive goal of #1 in Customer Satisfaction. Sounds great, doesn’t it? But is customer satisfaction all that it’s cracked up to be? Is it really the end-all of success in taking care of our homebuyers? Best-selling author Curt Coffman says, “Not necessarily”. The fact is, according to a recent Gallup Organization study, the drive towards customer satisfaction doesn’t really get the job done unless the customer is more than satisfied. They must be delighted, elated, and fully engaged. The study points out that the attrition rate of customers who are merely ‘satisfied’ is no different that of customers &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/08/satisfaction-isnt-good-enough/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/cheesecake.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-9064 alignleft" title="cheesecake" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/cheesecake-350x262.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="262" /></a>All the talk in the homebuilding industry – and in most every industry for that matter – is about the much sought after “Customer Satisfaction”.  It seems that JD Power is everywhere these days and companies around the globe are chasing the elusive goal of #1 in Customer Satisfaction.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Sounds great, doesn’t it?  But is customer satisfaction all that it’s cracked up to be?  Is it really the end-all of success in taking care of our homebuyers?  Best-selling author Curt Coffman says, “Not necessarily”.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The fact is, according to a recent Gallup Organization study, the drive towards customer satisfaction doesn’t really get the job done unless the customer is more than satisfied.  They must be delighted, elated, and fully engaged.  The study points out that the attrition rate of customers who are merely ‘satisfied’ is no different that of customers who are dissatisfied.  Only the fully engaged and delighted customers can be counted on to be loyal to a customer.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">In your heart you know this is true.  Think about a company that delights you, a place of doing business where you feel ‘fully engaged’ in the process.  Are you loyal to that company?  Of course you are.  Now compare that with a company that merely ‘satisfies’ you.  You’re not hacked off, but you’re not elated.  Are you loyal to that company?  Probably not.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I love the Cheesecake Factory.  I am delighted with the food and the experience.  I go there often and I talk about the company frequently. I am a loyal customer.  I am satisfied with Chili’s.  Nothing to write home about, but it’s a decent meal when I’m out and about.  And if another restaurant opened up next door I’d try it out.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">What are you doing to drive customer engagement, customer delight?  Your future success (in the form of referral business from homeowners, Realtors and general traffic) depends on your actions in this critical area of customer care.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2012 00:13:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for a great response to our caption contest this week.  You guys brought the funny!  We chose a couple of great captions. ~ &#8220;You’ll find all the neighbors are very close in this community!&#8221; ~ &#8220;No, no….. The deck is so large our pool just LOOKS like a bath tub. Trust me.&#8221; ~ &#8220;Why give the dog a bath inside and get water all over the place? Your own outdoor dog wash! Or for your husband when he forgets your anniversary.&#8221;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Thanks for a great response to our caption contest this week.  You guys brought the funny!  We chose a couple of great captions.</h6>
<p><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/funny-real-estate-youre-not-coming-in-this-house.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-8976 alignnone" title="funny-real-estate-youre-not-coming-in-this-house" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/funny-real-estate-youre-not-coming-in-this-house.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>~ &#8220;You’ll find all the neighbors are very close in this community!&#8221;</p>
<p>~ &#8220;No, no….. The deck is so large our pool just LOOKS like a bath tub. Trust me.&#8221;</p>
<p>~ &#8220;Why give the dog a bath inside and get water all over the place? Your  own outdoor dog wash! Or for your husband when he forgets your  anniversary.&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2012 23:57:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ladies and gentlemen, our word for day is: ‘Resolute’. Look it up. Study it. Ponder the concept for a moment. ‘Resolute’: unyielding; stubborn; determined; unwavering; steadfast. Now consider for a moment the most successful people you know, or know of. Do these words describe that person? Would you consider them to be profoundly ‘Resolute’? In all likelihood, it fits them to a tee. Successful people (successful businesspeople, successful athletes, successful mothers, and yes, successful sales counselors) have this inner quality in abundance: they are committed to excellence in everything they do. You’ve probably already guessed the next question, but here it is anyway: Did I just describe you and your career? Are you resolved to become the best sales counselor you can be? Are you unyielding in your attempt to learn more and more about your trade? Are you stubborn &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/08/resolute/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/SUGAR_1387327c.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-9028" title="SUGAR_1387327c" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/SUGAR_1387327c-350x218.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="218" /></a>Ladies and gentlemen, our word for day is: ‘Resolute’.  Look it up.  Study it.  Ponder the concept for a moment.  ‘Resolute’: unyielding; stubborn; determined; unwavering; steadfast.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Now consider for a moment the most successful people you know, or know of.  Do these words describe that person?  Would you consider them to be profoundly ‘Resolute’?  In all likelihood, it fits them to a tee.  Successful people (successful businesspeople, successful athletes, successful mothers, and yes, successful sales counselors) have this inner quality in abundance: they are committed to excellence in everything they do.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">You’ve probably already guessed the next question, but here it is anyway: Did I just describe you and your career?  Are you resolved to become the best sales counselor you can be?  Are you unyielding in your attempt to learn more and more about your trade?  Are you stubborn when it comes to sticking to the standards of excellence?  Are you determined to do your very best each and every day, with each and every customer?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I training for a living.  And I’m the last person to shun the idea that training is anything but critical to success and development, both for individuals and for an organization.  But training without resolution of application is hardly worth the time.  Improving your knowledge without a steadfast desire to apply what you’ve learned won’t get you anywhere.  We start with our beliefs, and let our beliefs guide our actions.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It’s a decision you and I can make today.  Am I resolute in my decision to be the best I can be?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Happy Selling,</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">~  Jeff</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2012 22:53:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I can&#8217;t say enough in favor of the &#8220;extra mile.&#8221; Everybody appreciates the person who goes out of their way to do something special; to do more than is expected. I recommend you find a cool way to go above and beyond for your customers. It&#8217;s a great way to be remembered!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>I can&#8217;t say enough in favor of the &#8220;extra mile.&#8221; Everybody appreciates the person who goes out of their way to do something special; to do more than is expected.  I recommend you find a cool way to go above and beyond for your customers.  It&#8217;s a great way to be remembered! </h6>
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		<title>Misery Loves Company? Really?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jul 2012 05:10:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You&#8217;ve heard that misery loves company&#8230; but does it really? I don&#8217;t think two miserable people can help anybody. I&#8217;ve put my thoughts on the idea in this video.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>You&#8217;ve heard that misery loves company&#8230; but does it really?  I don&#8217;t think two miserable people can help anybody.  I&#8217;ve put my thoughts on the idea in this video.</h6>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jul 2012 05:05:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some houses have a fireplace in the master bath. Some houses have a mini-bar in the dining room. This house has a bathtub on the porch. How would you sell this nifty feature? Submit a caption for this photo in the comments section. The best captions will be featured next week.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Some houses have a fireplace in the master bath.  Some houses have a mini-bar in the dining room.  This house has a bathtub on the porch.  How would you sell this nifty feature?  Submit a caption for this photo in the comments section.  The best captions will be featured next week.</h6>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jul 2012 04:33:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Question: When is it too early and too risky to ask for the sale? Answer: Don’t worry about it. Let me explain, and I’ll do so by addressing the two voices in your head: the Action Voice and the Filter Voice. The Action Voice is the one that says, “Go for it! It’s all yours baby – get ‘er done!” The Filter Voice says, “We must always be respectful; we don’t want to ruin the relationship; you must earn the right to ask for the sale.” Here’s my advice for Filter Voice: Take a long walk off a short pier! I’m going on the premise that none of you reading this are going to look at a prospect who walks through the door and immediately shout, “What’s it going to take to get you to buy my home today?” I’m &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/07/the-two-voices/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/stop-go.gif"><img src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/stop-go.gif" alt="" title="stop-go" width="250" height="250" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-8969" /></a>Question: When is it too early and too risky to ask for the sale?</p>
<p>Answer: Don’t worry about it. </p>
<p>Let me explain, and I’ll do so by addressing the two voices in your head: the Action Voice and the Filter Voice. </p>
<p>The Action Voice is the one that says, “Go for it! It’s all yours baby – get ‘er done!” The Filter Voice says, “We must always be respectful; we don’t want to ruin the relationship; you must earn the right to ask for the sale.” </p>
<p>Here’s my advice for Filter Voice: Take a long walk off a short pier! </p>
<p>I’m going on the premise that none of you reading this are going to look at a prospect who walks through the door and immediately shout, “What’s it going to take to get you to buy my home today?” I’m not talking about being obnoxious or icky or manipulative.</p>
<p>Action Voice speaks to us in appropriate tones and at appropriate times. It’s that little voice that says, 45 minutes into the conversation, “It’s time to ask for the sale.” Filter Voice says, “No, the prospect will let you know when she’s ready.” </p>
<p>We all know the voices, don’t we? May I offer some advice? Embrace Action Voice. Smack Filter Voice in the face! </p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jul 2012 06:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you have to have met somebody to consider them a mentor? Last week the world lost one if its foremost authors and speakers, Dr. Stephen Covey. I share some of the impact he&#8217;s had in my thinking and my career.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Do you have to have met somebody to consider them a mentor?  Last week the world lost one if its foremost authors and speakers, Dr. Stephen Covey.  I share some of the impact he&#8217;s had in my thinking and my career. </h6>
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		<title>Strategic Eavesdropping</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jul 2012 06:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I admit it. I listen in on other people’s conversations. Don’t worry; it’s not your conversation I’m most interested in – it’s your buyer&#8217;s. I regularly visit new sales offices, and while I&#8217;m there I love to talk with new home sales professionals. But I also love to walk the models and listen in to the conversations of home shoppers. What do I learn? What people are looking for in a home – what they love and what they hate these days. How people make decisions – how they process strategically. How people deal with conflict – what happens when he likes the home and she doesn’t. How really motivated people are – how close they are to buying. How passionate people are on the topic of buying a home. Try it. Put on jeans and a comfortable shirt and &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/07/strategic-eavesdropping/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/eavesdropping.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-8922" title="eavesdropping" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/eavesdropping-350x232.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="232" /></a>I admit it. I listen in on other people’s conversations.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Don’t worry; it’s not your conversation I’m most interested in – it’s your buyer&#8217;s.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I regularly visit new sales offices, and while I&#8217;m there I love to talk with new home sales professionals. But I also love to walk the models and listen in to the conversations of home shoppers.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">What do I learn?</p>
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<li>What people are looking for in a home – what they love and what they hate these days.</li>
<li>How people make decisions – how they process strategically.</li>
<li>How people deal with conflict – what happens when he likes the home and she doesn’t.</li>
<li>How really motivated people are – how close they are to buying.</li>
<li>How passionate people are on the topic of buying a home.</li>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Try it. Put on jeans and a comfortable shirt and go visit models on your next day off. Trust me, the conversations will blow you away.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jul 2012 01:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The media has historically not been friendly to us.  In fluctuating markets, they love to cry panic when things aren&#8217;t going well, and are slow to point out when things are looking up.  Therefore, I&#8217;m always happy when they finally allow themselves to print articles like these. Wall Street Journal: Housing Passes a Milestone The housing market has turned—at last. The U.S. finally has moved beyond attention-grabbing predictions from housing &#8220;experts&#8221; that housing is bottoming. The numbers are now convincing. Nearly seven years after the housing bubble burst, most indexes of house prices are bending up. &#8220;We finally saw some rising home prices,&#8221; S&#38;P&#8217;s David Blitzer said a few weeks ago&#8230; Continue USA Today: Housing starts in June highest in four years Housing starts jumped 6.9% in June to a 3 ½-year high, underscoring the residential real estate&#8217;s slow recovery &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/07/good-news-is-out-there/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6 style="text-align: justify;">The media has historically not been friendly to us.  In fluctuating markets, they love to cry panic when things aren&#8217;t going well, and are slow to point out when things are looking up.  Therefore, I&#8217;m always happy when they finally allow themselves to print articles like these.</h6>
<h5><a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702303644004577520414196790098.html" target="_blank">Wall Street Journal: Housing Passes a Milestone</a></h5>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Screen-Shot-2012-07-20-at-5.49.43-PM.png"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-8932" title="Screen Shot 2012-07-20 at 5.49.43 PM" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Screen-Shot-2012-07-20-at-5.49.43-PM.png" alt="" width="161" height="91" /></a>The housing market has turned—at last.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The U.S. finally has moved beyond attention-grabbing predictions from  housing &#8220;experts&#8221; that housing is bottoming. The numbers are now  convincing.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Nearly seven years after the housing bubble burst, most indexes of  house prices are bending up. &#8220;We finally saw some rising home prices,&#8221;  S&amp;P&#8217;s David Blitzer said a few weeks ago&#8230; <a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702303644004577520414196790098.html" target="_blank">Continue</a></p>
<h5 style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://www.usatoday.com/money/economy/housing/story/2012-07-18/housing-starts-june/56297966/1" target="_blank">USA Today: Housing starts in June highest in four years</a></h5>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Screen-Shot-2012-07-20-at-5.51.39-PM.png"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-8937" title="Screen Shot 2012-07-20 at 5.51.39 PM" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Screen-Shot-2012-07-20-at-5.51.39-PM-350x263.png" alt="" width="168" height="126" /></a>Housing starts jumped 6.9% in June to a 3  ½-year high, underscoring  the  residential real estate&#8217;s slow recovery   as a bright spot in a sputtering economy.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Construction of homes and apartments rose to a seasonally adjusted annual rate of 760,000 in June, the Commerce Department said Wednesday. That exceeded analysts&#8217; estimates and was the highest  level since October 2008. Single-family home starts increased 4.7% to  539,000, highest since March 2010, though activity that year was  inflated by a federal tax credit for home buyers&#8230; <a href="http://www.usatoday.com/money/economy/housing/story/2012-07-18/housing-starts-june/56297966/1" target="_blank">Continue</a></p>
<h5 style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://www.cnbc.com/id/48224387" target="_blank">CNBC: Housing a Bright Spot in a Dismal Summer</a></h5>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Screen-Shot-2012-07-20-at-5.56.04-PM.png"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-8939" title="Screen Shot 2012-07-20 at 5.56.04 PM" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Screen-Shot-2012-07-20-at-5.56.04-PM.png" alt="" width="178" height="135" /></a>In a summer with precious little positive  economic news, housing is proving to be a bright spot. June housing  starts, at 760,000, was the best print since October 2008.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The  NAHB Housing Market Index, out Tuesday, was at the highest level since  March 2007, and the change (to 35 from 30) was the largest monthly  increase since September 2002.  <a href="http://www.cnbc.com/id/48224387" target="_blank">Continue</a></p>
<h6 style="text-align: justify;">The market is changing!  Make certain your company is changing with it.  Our 2012 Sales Leadership Summit is coming very soon.  Click the link below to learn more.</h6>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jul 2012 06:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You need to stand out!  A prospective homebuyer may well visit a dozen communities in a weekend.  In that time, they will speak to a dozen salespeople, go on a dozen tours, fill out a dozen registration cards, and collect a dozen price lists.  There’s only one way that you stand a chance of being remembered: be memorable! High impact follow-up is one of your most effective tools for keeping your prospects interested in you and your homes.  And the good news is… it’s really easy to do!  Does your phone have a camera on it?  Of course it does!  Send them a quick (30-second) video email in which you talk about the model they saw and you thank them for coming in.  This takes two minutes of your time (including recording time!), zero-dollars of investment, and it could pay &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/07/two-minutes-zero-cost-high-impact/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">You need to stand out!  A prospective homebuyer may well visit a dozen communities in a weekend.  In that time, they will speak to a dozen salespeople, go on a dozen tours, fill out a dozen registration cards, and collect a dozen price lists.  There’s only one way that you stand a chance of being remembered: be memorable!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">High impact follow-up is one of your most effective tools for keeping your prospects interested in you and your homes.  And the good news is… it’s really easy to do!  Does your phone have a camera on it?  Of course it does!  Send them a quick (30-second) video email in which you talk about the model they saw and you thank them for coming in.  This takes two minutes of your time (including recording time!), zero-dollars of investment, and it could pay off huge!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I suggested this idea for high-impact, low-effort follow-up at a training session last week.  That very day I received this video email from an attendee, Adrianne Gallo, with a message that read: “Here&#8217;s a little note from my dog Grace. She loves when I learn new things.”</p>
<p><iframe width="640" height="480" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/zeTx5VjUFdQ?rel=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This 21-second video made my day!  Like you, I receive about 100 emails a day; but this one stood out.  Being memorable is your ticket to be chosen by your prospects!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Two minutes. No cost. High impact. Give it a try!</p>
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		<title>Quick Tip: 50/50</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jul 2012 06:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Be careful of a big problem in sales that gets little focus: paying attention more to one person than to the other. Example: you have a husband and wife looking for a home. You connect with him a lot and her a little (or vice versa). Your attention naturally goes to the person with whom you feel a stronger connection. This can serve to alienate the other party. The secret is to not let you emotions dictate the strategy. Pay 50/50 attention to both people. Make it a game to bring that lagging person around, to build that relationship up even if it takes a little time. Everyone wins!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/man-and-woman-heterosexual-icon-white-hi.png"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-8849" title="man-and-woman-heterosexual-icon-white-hi" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/man-and-woman-heterosexual-icon-white-hi-300x300.png" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>Be careful of a big problem in sales that gets little focus: paying attention more to one person than to the other.  Example: you have a husband and wife looking for a home.  You connect with him a lot and her a little (or vice versa).  Your attention naturally goes to the person with whom you feel a stronger connection.  This can serve to alienate the other party.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The secret is to not let you emotions dictate the strategy.  Pay 50/50 attention to both people.  Make it a game to bring that lagging person around, to build that relationship up even if it takes a little time.  Everyone wins!</p>
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		<title>Jokin&#8217; Around</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jul 2012 06:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re not above featuring real estate jokes on The Shore Thing. But that doesn&#8217;t mean we know any good ones! Do you have any to share? Post them in the comments section! Clearly, we need the help. A client bought a new home and the sales consultant wanted to send flowers for the occasion.   They arrived at the home and the owner read the card; it said&#8230; &#8220;Rest in Peace&#8221;. The owner was angry and called the florist to complain. After he had told the florist of the obvious mistake and how angry he was, the florist said, &#8220;Sir, I&#8217;m really sorry for the mistake, but rather than getting angry you should imagine this: somewhere there is a funeral taking place today, and they have flowers with a note saying&#8230; &#8220;Congratulations on your new home!&#8221; My buyer told me that &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/07/know-a-joke/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>We&#8217;re not above featuring real estate jokes on The Shore Thing. But that doesn&#8217;t mean we know any good ones! Do you have any to share? Post them in the comments section! Clearly, we need the help.</h6>
<hr /><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/floral-wreath.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-8838 alignright" style="border: medium none;" title="floral-wreath" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/floral-wreath-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" /></a>A client bought a new home and the sales consultant wanted to send flowers for the occasion.   They arrived at the home and the owner read the card; it said&#8230;</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Rest in Peace&#8221;.</em></p>
<p>The owner was angry and called the florist to complain. After he had told the florist of the obvious mistake and how angry he was, the florist said, &#8220;Sir, I&#8217;m really sorry for the mistake, but rather than getting angry you should imagine this: somewhere there is a funeral taking place today, and they have flowers with a note saying&#8230;</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Congratulations on your new home!&#8221;</em></p>
<hr /><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/gameover.png"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-8837" style="border: none;" title="gameover" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/gameover-150x150.png" alt="" width="100" height="100" /></a>My buyer told me that he lived in the same house for 10 years. When I checked, I found out he&#8217;d still be there today if the Governor hadn&#8217;t pardoned him.</p>
<hr /><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/einstein.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-8839 alignright" style="border: medium none;" title="einstein" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/einstein-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" /></a>Einstein dies and goes to heaven. The first person he see he asks, &#8220;Excuse me? What&#8217;s your IQ?&#8221;</p>
<p>The person replies, &#8220;180.&#8221; Einstein says, &#8220;Great! We can talk about astro physics!&#8221;</p>
<p>The second person he runs into he asks the same question, &#8220;What&#8217;s your IQ?&#8221;</p>
<p>The person replies, &#8220;120.&#8221; &#8220;Great!&#8221; says Einstein, &#8220;We can talk about events of the day!&#8221;</p>
<p>The third person he sees he once again asks about their IQ. This time the person says &#8220;45!&#8221;</p>
<p>Einstein says, &#8220;Great! Where do you think the real estate market is headed??!!&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jul 2012 03:08:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I had an old Ford Explorer that my kids drove. It needed work and I didn’t want to fix it, but I didn’t want to go through the hassle of selling it, either. I decided to trade it to a young man named Arthur in exchange for work around my house – sealing cracks in my asphalt, digging holes for a new fence, laying down rock, that sort of stuff. Arthur was thrilled for the opportunity. He couldn’t afford much in the way of cars, and even with the work that needed to be done to the Explorer, it would still be the nicest car he had ever owned. As he worked around the house he checked in with me constantly, asking the question, “Does this look alright? I want you to be happy.” Arthur worked around my house for &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/07/lessons-from-a-laborer/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/day_laborer.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-8754" title="day_laborer" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/day_laborer-350x249.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="249" /></a>I had an old Ford Explorer that my kids drove.  It needed work and I didn’t want to fix it, but I didn’t want to go through the hassle of selling it, either.  I decided to trade it to a young man named Arthur in exchange for work around my house – sealing cracks in my asphalt, digging holes for a new fence, laying down rock, that sort of stuff.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Arthur was thrilled for the opportunity.  He couldn’t afford much in the way of cars, and even with the work that needed to be done to the Explorer, it would still be the nicest car he had ever owned.  As he worked around the house he checked in with me constantly, asking the question, “Does this look alright?  I want you to be happy.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Arthur worked around my house for a few days.  I changed the fence plan a couple of times – no problem.  I didn’t like the way he was building some steps on the side of the house – he quickly and graciously changed it.  He dug post holes with the passion of a fly-fisherman in an Idaho stream.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">As I watched Arthur busting his back for several days I asked myself three questions:<br />
1)	Am I as grateful as Arthur for the opportunities that are given me?<br />
2)	Do I pour my heart, soul, and strength into what I do?<br />
3)	Do I have a strong desire to please the people I work for?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It seems to me there is a lot to be learned from the Arthur’s of the world.  And I’m thinking I might need those lessons as much as anyone.</p>
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		<title>Construction Isn&#8217;t For Everybody</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2012 06:01:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Make sure you take some time this week to let your construction workers, contractors, specialists, designers, and architects know how great a job they&#8217;re doing.  Because, lets face it, if you or I were to do their job, it would end up looking something like&#8230;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Make sure you take some time this week to let your construction workers, contractors,  specialists, designers, and architects know how great a job they&#8217;re  doing.  Because, lets face it, if you or I were to do their job, it would end up looking something like&#8230;</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2012 06:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check out my new exclusive interview with Mike Lyon of doyouconvert.com. We discuss the importance of using today&#8217;s modern tools to turn browsers into buyers.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>Check out my new exclusive interview with Mike Lyon of <a href="http://doyouconvert.com" target="_blank">doyouconvert.com</a>.  We discuss the importance of using today&#8217;s modern tools to turn browsers into buyers.</h6>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jun 2012 06:01:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This video was a big hit at PCBC this year. I think it&#8217;s important to take a look back in order to best see where we are going. Wouldn&#8217;t you agree? Click here to learn more about the upcoming 2012 Sales Leadership Summit!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h6>This video was a big hit at PCBC this year.  I think it&#8217;s important to take a look back in order to best see where we are going.  Wouldn&#8217;t you agree?</h6>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jun 2012 06:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love getting good questions from salespeople! I&#8217;m featuring a couple of recent ones in this week&#8217;s issue. 1. Ok, question for you. In my area where I am selling, we are getting 99% of our current traffic, (since April) coming in and saying they are two years out and after questioning, are not in a position to by a second home. What HGTV show are they watching that is telling them to say this, so I can figure out what to do with these people, besides market to them for two years. They are coming through my door, and this is how I make my living, they must be in the market now for a new home. Are other areas besides mine experiencing this type of buyer and how would you suggest dealing with this? Great question, and one &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/06/questions-and-answers-from-facebook/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
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<h6 style="text-align: justify;">I love getting good questions from salespeople! I&#8217;m featuring a couple of recent ones in this week&#8217;s issue.</h6>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>1. </strong><em> Ok, question for you. In my area where I am selling, we are getting 99% of our current traffic, (since April) coming in and saying they are two years out and after questioning, are not in a position to by a second home. What HGTV show are they watching that is telling them to say this, so I can figure out what to do with these people, besides market to them for two years. They are coming through my door, and this is how I make my living, they must be in the market now for a new home. Are other areas besides mine experiencing this type of buyer and how would you suggest dealing with this?</em></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Great  question, and one of the more difficult things that  salespeople have to face on a regular basis. Of course, the situation  will be different for every prospect, but the core of the issue for any  given customer who is dragging their feet is a lack of urgency. I know  that sounds obvious, but it begs the question, “what is urgency based  upon?” I believe that, more than anything else, urgency is most  specifically tied to dissatisfaction. What that means is that the people  you are talking to are not sensing a great enough dissatisfaction in  their current situation. Your task, rather than showing them how great  your home is, would be to first help them understand the deficiencies in  their current situation. Start by understanding why they are thinking  about moving above everything else. If you can get to the pain, it helps  them to understand that staying put is not an option. Mark my words:  the single greatest predictor of urgency is dissatisfaction.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>2. </strong><em><a href="http://jeffshore.com/2009/11/re-contacting-stale-leads/" target="_blank">5+5+5 system</a> question. I love this idea and the suggestions for ways to  add a personal touch to the message.  Do you have any advice for ways to  add a similar personal touch when you have never met the prospect and  the notes may be vague or non-existent?  I am stepping into this  scenario. I can elaborate if you need me to. Thanks!</em></p>
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<p><strong>First of all, do anything you can to make it personalized. Look in the  database for any clue that this is tailored to them &#8211; any notes about  preferences, hot buttons, interests, etc. Or even just the part of town  they live in. Find something to make it personal.  Then use the  note as an introduction and write, &#8220;I&#8217;d love to bring you up to speed as  to the most recent developments here at &#8212;- . I&#8217;ll call you in the  next few days to talk in person and to answer any questions you might  have.&#8221;</strong><strong> Be sure to make the tone upbeat and positive, like you&#8217;re really looking forward to talking with them. </strong><strong>Let me know how it works out!</strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jun 2012 06:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every worthwhile venture in the history of mankind has all been rooted in exactly the same process: dream; plan; execute. If you really want to do something worthwhile you just need to change that a little bit: dream big; plan big; execute big. Where are you stuck in that simple but profound progression? Are you just not dreaming big enough? If so, it’s time to get out of that rut. Life is a buffet – eat up! Are you not planning big? Remember that if you fail to plan, you plan to fail. And if you’re going to make plans why would you NOT want them to be big??? Or perhaps you fall short in the execution. If so, keep the journey big but make the steps small. Sometimes it’s just a matter of breaking down the big journey into &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/06/dream-plan-execute/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-8649" title="man_on_mountain_top297x403" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/man_on_mountain_top297x403-350x257.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="257" />Every worthwhile venture in the history of mankind has all been rooted in exactly the same process: dream; plan; execute. If you really want to do something worthwhile you just need to change that a little bit: dream big; plan big; execute big.<br />
Where are you stuck in that simple but profound progression?</p>
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<li>Are you just not dreaming big enough? If so, it’s time to get out of that rut. Life is a buffet – eat up!</li>
<li>Are you not planning big? Remember that if you fail to plan, you plan to fail. And if you’re going to make plans why would you NOT want them to be big???</li>
<li>Or perhaps you fall short in the execution. If so, keep the journey big but make the steps small. Sometimes it’s just a matter of breaking down the big journey into little steps.</li>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Dream Big – Plan Big – Execute Big…. And you’ll change the world in the process!</p>
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		<title>Bare Adequacy</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jun 2012 06:01:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Several years ago I read a book by Psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi entitled, Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience. I found it to be a fascinating work on the meeting place of productivity and happiness. A major premise of the book is that there are a whole lot of people who are productive but not happy, and vice versa. One particular point the author made has stuck with me; to this day I think of it often. He stated that one aspect of finding the blend between success and happiness is a trait that he calls “Bare Adequacy”. Paraphrasing, this would suggest that I’m good at what I do, but not that good. I’ve translated this concept into my own language as follows: I’m good at what I do, and people appreciate that. But I am one step away from being &#8230; <a href="http://jeffshore.com/2012/06/bare-adequacy-2/">Read More...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-8587" title="Public-Speaking-Male" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/Public-Speaking-Male-214x300.jpg" alt="" width="214" height="300" />Several years ago I read a book by Psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi entitled, Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience. I found it to be a fascinating work on the meeting place of productivity and happiness. A major premise of the book is that there are a whole lot of people who are productive but not happy, and vice versa.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">One particular point the author made has stuck with me; to this day I think of it often. He stated that one aspect of finding the blend between success and happiness is a trait that he calls “Bare Adequacy”. Paraphrasing, this would suggest that I’m good at what I do, but not that good.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I’ve translated this concept into my own language as follows:</p>
<div style="padding-left: 30px; text-align: justify;"><em>I’m good at what I do, and people appreciate that. But I am one step away from being irrelevant and tired to the people I work with, and so I must constantly push to renew, re-create, and re-invent. The strategies I teach must be fresh, and that is a constant challenge. I am adequate, but barely. I had best make sure I am striving to stay ahead of failure.</em></div>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This concept applies to everyone, but let me speak in particular to the veterans out there. If you’ve lost the joy of a business you have always loved, it might stem from a lack of a sense of ‘bare adequacy’. It might mean that you have reached a plateau and you need to push yourself to entirely new levels.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Let’s look at it this way: you might be completely adequate for a strong market, but that would make you an incomplete sales professional. Perhaps you need to re-think your sense of adequacy for a tough market, where the buyer psychology changes dramatically, where macro-economic shifts effect every single transaction, and where the sale is made in the tiniest corners of the sales process.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Figure it out, and you’ll change the world!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jun 2012 06:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This house known as ‘Fallen Star’, located at UCSD’s Jacobs Hall at Jacobs School of Engineering, is an amazing architectural achievement. It took a team of engineers and other experts several years to plan and construct and nearly half a million dollars. Though the up-tilted floor and seemingly precipitous overhang might deter the faint of heart, it’s totally safe. But alas, there’s no welcome mat for the general public. Sculptor and creator, from Korea, Ho Ga says “Fallen House” is about “displacement” – his personal experience of being uprooted and displaced from Korea to America.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-8592" title="fallen-star-house-on-edge-10" src="http://jeffshore.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/fallen-star-house-on-edge-10.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="375" />This house known as ‘Fallen Star’, located at UCSD’s Jacobs Hall at Jacobs School of Engineering, is an amazing architectural achievement. It took a team of engineers and other experts several years to plan and construct and nearly half a million dollars. Though the up-tilted floor and seemingly precipitous overhang might deter the faint of heart, it’s totally safe. But alas, there’s no welcome mat for the general public. Sculptor and creator, from Korea, Ho Ga says “Fallen House” is about “displacement” – his personal experience of being uprooted and displaced from Korea to America.</p>
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