{"id":13191,"date":"2014-09-16T01:00:21","date_gmt":"2014-09-16T08:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jeffshore.com\/?p=13191"},"modified":"2022-02-07T07:12:00","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T15:12:00","slug":"2-powerful-ways-to-become-your-customers-assistant-buyer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jeffshore.com\/2014\/09\/2-powerful-ways-to-become-your-customers-assistant-buyer\/","title":{"rendered":"2 Powerful Ways to Become Your Customer’s ‘Assistant Buyer’"},"content":{"rendered":"

You customer is, by nature, an extremely emotional creature.<\/p>\n

When making a big-ticket purchase, even normally stoic and even-keeled people feel a keen sense of heightened emotional response. And why not? Parting with a large chunk of hard-earned cash for a life-altering purchase calls for some emotion!<\/p>\n

Which is why you, the sales person, play such a key role in the buying process. Big-ticket purchases come with certain built-in\u00a0service needs for your customer. And the best\u00a0sales people meet these needs with grace and skill.<\/p>\n

I recommend that big-ticket sales people assume the role of ‘Assistant Buyer.’ If I, as a sales counselor, understand you, the\u00a0customer, extremely well, I can offer insight, suggestions and guidance that are in your\u00a0best interest.<\/p>\n

I exist to help you\u00a0buy.<\/em><\/p>\n

The Assistant Buyer paradigm assumes that the sales counselor exists\u00a0 for the customer<\/em>, not for themselves. Many sales people find this to stretch their thinking quite a bit, especially those who believe that sales is something they do to<\/em> their customer rather than for<\/em> and with<\/em> their customer.<\/p>\n

The Power\u00a0of Trust<\/strong><\/p>\n

The sales process is a partnership. Think about that word,\u00a0partnership<\/em>. It\u00a0implies some degree of \u00a0trust between partners. Whether\u00a0these are business partners, marital partners or tennis partners, a partnership is, by definition,\u00a0a trusting relationship.<\/p>\n

As we all know, building trust is a process.<\/p>\n

When I talk about building a trusting relationship with your customer,\u00a0\u00a0I am not necessarily talking about building the type of friendship where you want to go camping together (though it happenS!).<\/p>\n

Instead, we need to establish enough of a relationship that your customer knows\u00a0 that you actively seek their best interests.<\/p>\n

Think of it this way: would you buy a car from your brother-in-law? How you answer that question depends on your relationship with your brother-in-law.<\/p>\n

Some of you automatically thought, \u201cAbsolutely!\u201d Others immediately thought, \u201cNot in a million years!\u201d<\/p>\n

Odds are that your response is directly proportionate to the amount of trust that exists between you and your brother-in-law.<\/p>\n

You may react\u00a0 negatively not because you believe\u00a0your brother-in-law will rip you off, but because\u00a0you know that he is\u00a0not competent to assist you in this area.<\/p>\n

Similarly, your customer will evaluate both your emotional intelligence and<\/em> your competency as the two foundations of a trusting relationship.<\/p>\n

The trust relationship you\u00a0develop with your customer becomes the platform on\u00a0which you build your entire<\/em> sales presentation.<\/p>\n

No trust = no credibility = no influence = no sale.<\/p>\n

In addition to expert knowledge about your industry, work to add understanding of the emotional nature of big-ticket buying.\u00a0Then, assume the role of \u201cAssistant Buyer.\u201d<\/p>\n

Equipped with these tools and this perspective, you will\u00a0change your customer’s\u00a0world.<\/p>\n

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