3 Crucial Attributes Of Successful Salespeople

by Amy O’Connor

Addressing the mindsets of the successful sales professional is, by far, the most crucial issue to consider as we look to improve our personal sales abilities. It’s from these mindsets that effective sales traits develop.

It doesn’t matter if you have all the latest “cool tools” intended to increase your sales output. If you don’t have the right mindsets – the right mentality, attitude, and outlook – you will use these trendy approaches with very limited success.

Interestingly, some of the most essential sales success skills require no actual selling experience at all.

Attribute #1: Self-Awareness 

If you want to influence others, you must first know how others perceive you, and that is no easy task. We are so consumed with protecting our internal image of ourselves that we find it difficult to seek input and feedback from others or be objective. Not until we have a truer image of ourselves can we begin to make the necessary adjustments to our own behaviors and properly influence others.

“There are three things extremely hard: steel, a diamond, and to know one’s self.” Benjamin Franklin

To become more self aware, psychologists and related experts recommend the following:

  • Seek honest feedback from those around you.
  • Create a daily habit of self-reflection with the goal of identifying areas for growth.
  • Write in a journal. We are what we repeatedly do.
  • Understand your life story and how it has shaped who you are today.
  • Perform periodic self-reviews to analyze and question your own behaviors.

Self-awareness is not something you develop overnight. It is a continual process that can take years to fully develop. Be patient! Self-awareness is a life long pursuit.

Attribute #2: Energy Level

Our first moments of interaction with the customer are perhaps the most critical. The customer walks in with a heightened state of awareness, and they notice everything, especially your energy. Top sales performers are hyper-focused on managing their energy levels, but the driver here is not high energy as compared to low energy.

​The truly important factor is positive energy vs. negative energy. The sales person is the single most important source of energy in any selling environment. You set the energy tone. You have more power over perceived energy than anyone or anything.

​It is imperative that your customer senses positive energy the moment they walk through the door. Positive energy begets positive energy.

Attribute #3: Awareness of Communication Styles

Not everyone sends and receives communication in the same way. In fact, there are four different primary communication styles that determine how best we like to communicate with others.

​Great salespeople understand their own communication style and recognize that the responsibility is on them to observe and adapt to the buyer’s preferred communication style. In doing so, the buyer feels comfortable during the sales process and is therefore more likely to buy.

Four Communication Styles:

  • Analytic: formal, precise, cautious, deliberate, questioning
  • Driver: purposeful, demanding, determined, competitive, strong-willed
  • Emotional: encouraging, relaxed, sharing, patient, caring
  • Fun: demonstrative, enthusiastic, persuasive, dynamic, sociable

Goals for adapting to other communication styles:

  1. Identify your customer’s communication style through observing both verbal and nonverbal cues.
  2. Adjust your style so that you are likable and approachable.
  3. Learn how to ask discovery questions differently based on the buyer’s communication style.

The best of the best (and that’s you, right?!) actively work on building and sustaining the proper mental approach. Call it the X-factor, that part of your achievement drive that will not be tamed. These are the winners. Are they skilled? Absolutely. But far more important is the feeding of the attitude.

If you’re looking for more keys to sales success, consider Jeff’s book, The Keys to Unstoppable Sales Success. Following these “Keys to Success” will radically impact who you are so you that can be more successful in what you do!

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About the Author: Amy O'Connor

Amy O'Connor
Amy O’Connor brings a decade’s worth of industry experience and knowledge to her impactful and enlightening seminars. Working hand-in-hand with a majority of the top ten homebuilders in North America — as well as private and regional builders — Amy offers a wealth of real-world expertise managing, coaching and motivating new home sales professionals. Learn more at jeffshore.com and follow Amy on Twitter.